mentality

The following are all the articles related to mentality from PUA Lingo, the Pick Up Artist's Encyclopedia. You can also browse our PUA Terminology List for a full list of PUA terms and acronyms.

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Scarcity Mentality

Quick Definition: A mental metaphor that one holds in his head that says “every resource in life has a limited availability…

The 7 Most Useful Examples of Pickup Jargon

My last article for PUA Lingo seemed to prove popular. Strange as it was giving lingo a jab to the…

Abundance Mentality

Quick Definition: The belief  and life perspective that there is no shortage of hot girls to meet in any man’s…

Fundamental Shift

Quick Definition: A change in a person’s perspective that is permanent regarding his or her certain theories about how life works. Full Definition:  …

Closer

Quick Definition: The mentality and character of a PUA that full closes. At the end of the day, a person…

Plate Spinning

Quick Definition: The practice of working on seducing multiple women at once. Full Definition: Plate spinning is a term that…

Outcome Independence

Quick Definition: The mindset of not focusing on a specific result, or growing attached to any outcome. Full Definition: Outcome…

Provider

Quick Definition: The stereotype of a guy who is nurturing and provides women with resources. Full Definition: The provider is…

Arbitrary Target

Quick Definition: A ‘target’ that is approached with the intention of practicing game rather than any specific desire of a…

The Approach Mindset

Hey, this is Bobby Rio from Make Small Talk Sexy… and today I wanted to talk to you about the…

Apocalypse Opener

This is a short opener based on creating instantly high attraction due to the ballsy nature of the opener. The…

Lover

Quick Definition: The stereotype of a guy who is sexually attractive to women. Full Definition: The lover is a stereotype…

Death Row / Wall of Death

Quick Definition: A row of guys standing in line with a drink to their chest, doing nothing and adding no…

How to Approach Women

It’s happened to all of us before: we see a girl, we are attracted to them, and we want to…

Warm-Up Set

Quick Definition: The first few sets that a PUA approaches when he goes sarging, to get into a social mode….

Ozzie

Ozzie, originally from Cuba and based on Barcelona, Spain, is responsible for running Real Social Dynamics operations and bootcamps in…

Reframe

Quick Definition: To say or do something that alters the context (AKA “frame”) through which someone sees an idea or…

Seductive Instinct Podcast

Seductive Instinct is an ongoing series of podcasts and videos with Master Dating Coach Arash Dibazar. Listen to these episodes…

The Pickup Artist: The New and Improved Art of Seduction

Review of the book from Mystery (Erik von Markovik) and Lovedrop (Chris Odom) The Pickup Artist Table of Contents: Neil…

Oneitis

Quick Definition: A “disease” (hence the ‘itis) where a man is stuck on one girl, and feels that she is…

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