mentality
The following are all the articles related to mentality from PUA Lingo, the Pick Up Artist's Encyclopedia. You can also browse our PUA Terminology List for a full list of PUA terms and acronyms.
Scarcity Mentality
Quick Definition: A mental metaphor that one holds in his head that says “every resource in life has a limited availability…
The 7 Most Useful Examples of Pickup Jargon
My last article for PUA Lingo seemed to prove popular. Strange as it was giving lingo a jab to the…
Abundance Mentality
Quick Definition: The belief and life perspective that there is no shortage of hot girls to meet in any man’s…
Fundamental Shift
Quick Definition: A change in a person’s perspective that is permanent regarding his or her certain theories about how life works. Full Definition: …
Closer
Quick Definition: The mentality and character of a PUA that full closes. At the end of the day, a person…
Plate Spinning
Quick Definition: The practice of working on seducing multiple women at once. Full Definition: Plate spinning is a term that…
Outcome Independence
Quick Definition: The mindset of not focusing on a specific result, or growing attached to any outcome. Full Definition: Outcome…
Provider
Quick Definition: The stereotype of a guy who is nurturing and provides women with resources. Full Definition: The provider is…
Arbitrary Target
Quick Definition: A ‘target’ that is approached with the intention of practicing game rather than any specific desire of a…
The Approach Mindset
Hey, this is Bobby Rio from Make Small Talk Sexy… and today I wanted to talk to you about the…
Apocalypse Opener
This is a short opener based on creating instantly high attraction due to the ballsy nature of the opener. The…
Lover
Quick Definition: The stereotype of a guy who is sexually attractive to women. Full Definition: The lover is a stereotype…
Death Row / Wall of Death
Quick Definition: A row of guys standing in line with a drink to their chest, doing nothing and adding no…
How to Approach Women
It’s happened to all of us before: we see a girl, we are attracted to them, and we want to…
Warm-Up Set
Quick Definition: The first few sets that a PUA approaches when he goes sarging, to get into a social mode….
Ozzie
Ozzie, originally from Cuba and based on Barcelona, Spain, is responsible for running Real Social Dynamics operations and bootcamps in…
Reframe
Quick Definition: To say or do something that alters the context (AKA “frame”) through which someone sees an idea or…
Seductive Instinct Podcast
Seductive Instinct is an ongoing series of podcasts and videos with Master Dating Coach Arash Dibazar. Listen to these episodes…
The Pickup Artist: The New and Improved Art of Seduction
Review of the book from Mystery (Erik von Markovik) and Lovedrop (Chris Odom) The Pickup Artist Table of Contents: Neil…
Oneitis
Quick Definition: A “disease” (hence the ‘itis) where a man is stuck on one girl, and feels that she is…
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