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  • Fuck Me Eyes

    Quick Definition: When a girl looks at you in a sexual, almost predatory way. Full Definition: Fuck me eyes are the ultimate IOI. If a woman starts eye fucking someone, it is usually a good sign that she is strongly attracted to him, her buying temperature is high, and that she wants to have sex. PUAs generally get the fuck me eyes if they are extremely good looking, fit into a woman’s preconceived notion of what she is interested in in a…

    Social Conditioning by Gunwitch

    Author: Gunwitch Context: Gunwitch breaks down the 9 social narratives we’ve been “conditioned” to believe and why it is ok to question these commonly-held notions. In this excerpt from his Dynamic Sex Life e-book, Gun describes common social conditionings that impair pick-up. This is a very important post for Inner Game. I just got you realizing how these things you might be conditioned with are negatively impacting your sex…

    The Truth About Women

    Original Poster Name: Unknown Context: A great post on a master’s journey to truly understand women and empathize, as opposed to becoming a misogynist. You can tell from his writing that he’s mastered the game. I wasn’t a sexist before I understood women. There was a time when I was blissfully ignorant. I grew up watching Disney cartoons, I believed in romance and “true love conquers all” etc. I wanted to find a…

    Mind Fuck

    Quick Definition: Mental seduction, as opposed to actual physical sex. Full Definition: In the world of strippers, escorts, and prostitutes, a mind fuck customer usually refers to men who want the company and seduction of a charming woman mainly (though not exclusively) for her presence of seduction rather than sex. Thus, to be “mind fucked.” When dealing with strippers, PUAs need to be wary of her mind fucking them into believing…

    Down To Fuck (DTF)

    Quick Definition: When a girl is clearly interested in having sex with you. Full Definition: Down to fuck, usually abbreviated “DTF,” is the point at which it’s apparent that the girl wants to sleep with you. When a girl is DTF, she is usually giving off strong ISIs, like touching you sensually, complying with your requests, and accepting your kino escalation. Once it’s clear that a girl is DTF, a PUA can go for a kiss,…

    Find/Fuck Ten Other Women (FTOW)

    Quick Definition: Going out, finding, and having sex with ten different women as a way to get over a breakup. Full Definition: “Go fuck ten other women, and see how you feel about her” is common advice in the PUA community for guys who are having oneitis and are stuck on a woman from a past relationship. The phrase is generally not taken literally, as it would take a lot more skill than newbies typically have to actually go out and…

    Fuck Buddy (FB)

    AKA Fuck Buddies (FB) Quick Definition: An HB with whom the PUA engages in frequent, consensual sex without expectations of a long term relationship. Full Definition: Women who engage in casual sex are more common than portrayed in pop culture. Although many women may openly condemn this kind of activity, they will often engage in the practice secretly, and PUAs can take advantage of this fact to have many casual relationships, instead of…


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