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  • Fuck Me Eyes

    Quick Definition: When a girl looks at you in a sexual, almost predatory way. Full Definition: Fuck me eyes are the ultimate IOI. If a woman starts eye fucking someone, it is usually a good sign that she is strongly attracted to him, her buying temperature is high, and that she wants to have sex. PUAs generally get the fuck me eyes if they are extremely good looking, fit into a woman’s preconceived notion of what she is interested in in a…

    Find/Fuck Ten Other Women (FTOW)

    Quick Definition: Going out, finding, and having sex with ten different women as a way to get over a breakup. Full Definition: “Go fuck ten other women, and see how you feel about her” is common advice in the PUA community for guys who are having oneitis and are stuck on a woman from a past relationship. The phrase is generally not taken literally, as it would take a lot more skill than newbies typically have to actually go out and…

    Down To Fuck (DTF)

    …ally interested, you can still run into LMR and other obstacles en route to the bedroom, so it’s important to transition smoothly and not raise any red flags or last minute objections. Usage: Did you see the IOI’s from that chick? She’s definitely DTF. Related Terms: SOI, ISI, Buying Temperature, Compliance, Eye Fucking, Sexual State, Phase Shift, KinoEscalation Submitted By: C-Dub Related Links: How To Tell If A Girl Is Seri…

    Mind Fuck

    Quick Definition: Mental seduction, as opposed to actual physical sex. Full Definition: In the world of strippers, escorts, and prostitutes, a mind fuck customer usually refers to men who want the company and seduction of a charming woman mainly (though not exclusively) for her presence of seduction rather than sex. Thus, to be “mind fucked.” When dealing with strippers, PUAs need to be wary of her mind fucking them into believing t…

    Fuck Buddy (FB)

    AKA Fuck Buddies (FB) Quick Definition: An HB with whom the PUA engages in frequent, consensual sex without expectations of a long term relationship. Full Definition: Women who engage in casual sex are more common than portrayed in pop culture. Although many women may openly condemn this kind of activity, they will often engage in the practice secretly, and PUAs can take advantage of this fact to have many casual relationships, instead of rushi…

    Fuck Close (FClose)

    Quick Definition: To end a “pick up” by having sex with the target. Full Definition: For many PUAs, an fclose is the only close that matters. Although aPUAs may become excited about getting kcloses and #closes, the goal of a pickup is ultimately to lay the girl. It takes true skill along each step of seduction process to fclose an HB (except in cases of fool’s mate). Example of Hank Moody F-Closing in Californication Usage:…

    Full Close (FClose)

    Quick Definition: A less explicit term for fuck close; completing a pick up by having sex with a girl. Full Definition: Full close is almost the same as fuck close. Full close tends to indicate that the game was well played, and it was a solid close that will result in an ongoing relationship, whereas fuck close refers to being able to have sex with the girl, but that it may have also have come with consequences (e.g. buyer’s remorse)….

    Secret Society

    Quick Definition: A romantization of the very real behavior of how women truly have and manage sex in regards to society, and how select men are part of the secret community. I.e. Being okay and at peace with hot girls wanting and desiring sex, as all humans have fun and have sex with each other. Full Definition: Tyler explains further about how to view the world as is, and see your competition as a healthy natural part of life: There is no b…

    Jlaix (Jeffy Allen)

    …r him their worst nightmare. Jeffy is not at all about the money – he simply gets girls and enjoys sex. Choosing to live in and coach in San Francisco, he has mastered the intricacies of bay area game. His “rape van” (I mean, consensual sex van) continues to make the city rounds. Jeffy on Game Video Jeffy Quotes Irrelevant. Time to fuck! Cut the shit. Time to fuck! [Insert excuse here]. Time to fuck! Be a player, all the way, or get married…

    Personal Stickiness Level

    …ion of physical appearance, energy level, and the person’s behavior patterns. This is an important concept to understand. Depending on where you are on the social totem pole, based on feedback from most of the people at different levels, your natural “pull” will differ from other guys. Your personal stickiness level will increase as you improve your game and the foundational pillars of your life, including your physical look and…

    Lay of Rage

    …has sex with a girl with intent of getting revenge on someone else. Although there are many cooperative aspects to the seduction community, there are also many competitive elements and big egos as well, which can lead to episodes of PUAs using sex as a weapon against each other. In pop culture, revenge fucks are generally associated with women, as they tend to be chooser in having sex with the opposite sex. As PUAs know, however, a player can be…

    Grand Master Style (GM Style)

    …anced technique that takes an extraordinary amount of self-control and an outgoing personality, allowing the PUA to keep talking and take a lot of shit tests from women without losing his cool. Think Pepé Le Pew, but more vulgar and non-stop, with PUA level calibration. In a nutshell, GM involves the PUA first telling the woman blatantly that he wants to fuck her. This will likely trigger a negative (IOD) response. It is important for the PUA to…

    Long Distance Relationship (LDR)

    …ain multiple LDRs in different cities, and email each of them every few days or chat with them just often enough to keep some sort of connection going. Depending on how serious the relationship is, the PUA might not even have to communicate with them at all, contacting them only when he is in the area, essentially having a long distance fuck buddy relationship. Usage: I have 2 LDRs right now. Related Terms: MLTR, Harem Management, GF, Fuck Budd…

    Orbiter

    …m as social proof, back-up BFs in case their current relationship fails, and as convenient “friends” to dump all their emotional problems on from their asshole boyfriends. Orbiters come in many shapes and sizes: The best friend: who has been in the friend zone for way too long and has, for the most part, given up on fucking the HB. His lingering feelings from the inability to close her makes him a dangerous cockblock. The sugar daddy…

    PIMP Product Review

    …xample, he has a analogy called the “Mr. Michael analogy”. Mr Michael is you boss, and he has chosen to give you a promotion. In celebration to that, he’s going to throw you a party with everything + 100 naked girls who are DTF. But, the only criteria is that you can’t fuck any of them. If you do, you lose your job. So at the party, how will you respond? The first girl that pulls you aside in to a corner where Michael can&…

    Number Close (#close)

    Quick Definition: To complete a pick up by getting a girl to give you her phone number. Full Definition: A number close is what AFCs or non-PUAs consider as a regular “pickup” in the mainstream dating scene. As PUAs we know better and, thus, like to differentiate between different kinds of closes (kiss close, number close, fuck close, etc.). These terms originate from sales terminology—”close a deal”—and also the sales l…

    Eye Fucking

    Quick Definition: See the definition for Fuck Me Eyes. Usage: “That girl was totally eye fucking me!” Related Terms: Indicator of Sexual Interest, Approach Invitation, IOI, Eye Contact, Subcommunication…

    Warm-Up Set

    …ers, bartenders, doormen, and other easy targets that are low pressure approaches. Other PUAs will purposely try to crash & burn on their first set, for example going up to a woman and asking: “Nice shoes, wanna fuck?” Whatever happens next, any sets the PUA approaches for the rest of the night should be easier than the first one. Whatever targets the PUA chooses to warm-up with, it is important to remain outcome independent and n…

    Mystery (Erik Von Markovik)

    …Mystery Mystery and Matador in Field Mystery Quotes My job here is to get you into the game.  I need to get what’s in my head into yours.  Think of tonight as a video game. It is not real. Every time you do an approach, you are playing this game.  All your emotions are going to try to fuck you up.  They are there to try to confuse you, so know right now that they cannot be trusted at all. You wi…

    How To Pick Up A Shy Girl

    …onfidence to do that from reading her Harry Potter books. The point is, she isnt going to change. She isnt going to become an outgoing confidence alpha female (I’m talking short term). This girl isn’t one to break either. It’s all or nothing with shy girls; they tend to be more traditional than the average outgoing woman when it comes to relationships. You’re not going to get a one night stand or a fuck buddy out of her. B…

    Letting Her Chase You

    …HER A CHANCE Create a verbal vacuum (conversational vacuum) Stare at her, expectant: “it’s your turn to partake in this interaction. You don’t have to, I don’t need you to, but let’s see what’s you’ve got” Do a takeaway “Hey! You’re supposed to fight for me!” Do it playfully, “you would really let me go? What the fuck” “Oh you’re 26. Interesting” ̵…

    Life Changing Moment (LCM)

    …uit” in front of the whole senior management team. Wesley’s office scene from Wanted when he decides to stand up to his boss and his best friend (who’s fucking his GF): Usage: I had a life changing moment when I saw, in succession of one after the other, how a girl like Maria was able to game 10 guys in the same night. Related Terms: Recalcitrant Experience, Inner Game, Lifestyle, Congruence, Shit Test, Field Experience, Iden…

    Indicator of Sexual Interest (ISI)

    Quick Definition: Evidence from an HB or PUA which indicates real sexual interest in the other person. Full Definition: An ISI is an overtly sexual IOI, which can include sexual innuendos, “fuck-me” eyes, and aggressive kino. In women, ISIs are more common in older women who have less ASD, or younger women who have become so overcome by arousal that ASD is no longer a concern for them. In men, ISIs can be a form of GM Style, Gunswit…

    Girl Close (GClose)

    Quick Definition: A close (number close, kiss close, fb close) that leads to a full close. Full Definition: Girl close is a term created by Formhandle of the MASF forum to refer to the idea of focusing on fully closing a girl, rather than just getting a make-out or getting her number. Many PUAs start out focusing on learning techniques to get a number close or a kiss close because they believe this will lead to getting an fclose. While this is…

    60 years of challenge

    …cle the “anti-manifesto” goes against the grain of old pick up mentality and set a new direction for how guys think about game and “techniques”. 60 years of challenge Unfortunately I do not have any pictures of him, however his site is here You don’t really need to do or say much of anything. There is already tension between men and women. By definition that tension is sexual. It’s always lurking just beneath t…


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