…cause I’ve been that chode. Get your inner game sorted. I recommend the work of Eckhart Tolle. So with no further ado, gents, here we go. I hope you’re sitting comfortably. THE BEST CHAT UP LINE I EVER HEARD About 18 months ago I was in the smoking area of a pub on Edinburgh’s Royal Mile. It’s very picturesque. There’s a castle and everything. Anyway, this time I’m out with just ONE girl. She’s a good fri…

…ast Seduction.com and our friends and contacts. If you know of a lair that is not listed, please contact us and we will add it! Thanks to Cliff, Thundercat, and Nightlife for compiling the list on which this is based. Version 1.1 Last Updated: 12.30.2012 by AlphaWolf (Vince Lin) Running a PUA Group IF and ONLY IF you are running a lair, join this group to let other lairs know what you are doing. If you are starting a lair we suggest waiting unti…

…stand this.

Regarding FPUA’s, the proof is in the pudding. It’d be great to go find women that are 4-7 in looks and consider themselves FPUA’s. If they can pull men/women that the majority of women would consider 9’s and 10’s, then there is something to FPUA’s. An easier way to gather data would be looking at the success rate of Kesia’s female students. Let’s set the bar at 25% for comparison’s sake. If they pass, FPUA tactics might be ef…

Quick Definition: The act of seducing a co-worker at work. Full Definition: The practice of picking up women at work is a very controversial one. Some PUAs have no qualms about becoming romantically involved with their co-workers, while others caution against it because of the potential negative fall-out that could result. Hooking up with co-workers often happens very naturally because the vast majority of our adult lives is spent in the world…

…more unattractive and flakey. Q: Are you traveling most of the year? Which countries you find the most enjoyable in terms of beautiful women? In terms of getting laid the easiest? I combine travel with staying in a city for 1-3 months at a time. My favorite countries were Estonia, Lithuania, Poland, Croatia, Colombia, and Brazil. These are all countries that I’d return to because the women were pretty and feminine. The easiest countries t…

Quick Definition: The ideal balance all social animals seek to maintain, between protecting themselves from danger and aligning themselves with others. Full Definition: This term draws from the work of “systems theory” and originates in the PU  community from MM . The concept is best illustrated by using extremes in the case of an up and coming celebrity. Let’s take Vincent Chase, for example, since Entourage appears to b…

Original Author: Gambler I just created a Valentine’s Day themed opener which you can use for the next few weeks! Seasonal openers are pretty thin on the ground. There are especially few for Valentine’s Day. With some slight tweaking you can make it work all year round:” Let me ask you something…My friend had a difficult situation on Valentines Day. He basically planned to take his girlfriend for an amazing dinner, but a few days before she sai…

Guest post by Get Me The Girl Scenario: “Hey could you do me a favour? Could you get to know my friend Sarah, she’s on her own and doesn’t know you guys. And she is quite shy in general… Could you make her feel welcome?” asked your friend. Sure, you’re a sociable guy and wouldn’t want to leave somebody out of the fun just because they are new to the social circle. Turns out she is the hottest girl at the party! She just d…

Quick Definition: Anything that gives a PUA the confidence boost he needs in order to escalate his game, even if it isn’t necessarily true. Full Definition: Bullshit Escalation is a term used by some PUAs to describe the positive effect that a piece of advice or information can have, even if it isn’t true. The concept is similar to the placebo effect encountered in medicine, where a patient is given a bogus treatment but still sees noticeable…

…r technique and coaching skills, instead of mass marketing. Sure, we all need to make a living, but this happens after one adds value to the capitalistic system and the world at large. So without further ado, here are the Top 15 PUAs of 2012: Honorable Mention: Sean Stephenson Sean Stephenson isn’t really a professional PUA Coach, but he’s helped millions of people find inspiration in their own lives. Born with severe osteogenesis im…

…and books and videos are a great place to get your feet wet in the field, a few tips to help you navigate the field in between your educational pursuits wouldn’t hurt either, right? Your wish is our command. Here are the top 10 tips for PUA’s just starting out, tips that you can start using…tonight. Here they are in no specific order. 1. You’ll need a wingman, keyword, reliable. You know what a wingman is, and you know the importance of t…

Vitor Hi, I’m currently reading your book “The Game” and I’m really enjoyng it. I must say your story is very interesting, and I wonder if this stuff will also work for me.

I’m kinda of nervous writting this message and I sincerely hope you don’t mind some english mistakes, ’cause it ain’t my mother language (I’m Brazilian).

Anyway, I’d like to know if you pretend to do pua workshops abroad…

Also, I must say that, for a guy of only 19, I h…

If you’re like most guys, when you’re interacting with a girl, your main aim is to get her to go out with you, with a view ultimately of sleeping with her. Right?  Right. What you may not know however, is how you go about achieving these ‘objectives’ can make a real difference in how you feel afterwards. I know many guys who don’t want to lie to girls but they feel it’s the only way to be successful. Maybe you’ve even told a porker or two t…

…ore than a handful of occasions:- my standard response is to offer support and reassurance without any show of dissapointment, then change the subject completely off the topic. This has never failed, ever, for within isually 10-15min its on again, instigated by her. This is not rape, even though there was a clear no. Cydien Rake Mattoro

You’ve seen what I’ve posted and know my stance on force. So consider that when reading my response.

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…he general populace of women. This is why groupies exist for almost any type of artist. Embodying the 7 personality traits of your idols: Napolean Hill mentions having a chart with 7 days of the week. Each day, he would have 1 personality trait he wants to embody that day. Of these personalities, he collected from the people he admired the most. What do your mentors and idols have as their core characteristics? Work on embodying them over time a…

…I’m Rebecca, a Graduate student in landscape architecture currently pursuing dream job and career change. A formally trained artist with a degree. I am looking to reconnect to my artistic roots and other artists after a 10 yr. hiatus in my previous career” “Hey I’m Kate, am a New York native and would really like to learn how to date NOT using the internet!” Now mind you these aren’t ugly girls. Their photos ar…

…with a loser identity, you now have the identity of a loser who is well-educated about seduction and social dynamics. “Educated loser” – not quite what you had in mind. Brad P Images Caricature of Brad P from the Top 10 PUA List Brad P Videos Brad P conference call with Style:…

Quick Definition: The ability of an artist’s will to personally build up momentum, usually over time, to achieve a specific goal. Full Definition: Group momentum is easier to achieve. A corporate sponsor, our day to day, a sports team, these types of social structures “force” us into a routine for a common purpose. Personal momentum, however, is reserved for the truly great ones. Athletes  stars and business people often have…

…done and keep on getting what you’ve always gotten…like every other Average Joe. OR you can handle things with a little more polish and style and outperform average guys when it comes to success with women. What’ll it be? 1. THINK A FEW CHESS MOVES AHEAD I admit it. I can’t sit still long enough to enjoy chess. But I know this much: What separates a great chess player from all others is an ability to visualize what the board cou…

Written by Vince Lynch, Master Hypnotist There’s huge misconceptions about hypnosis & NLP in the pick-up world. I constantly get emails about inner game, asking whether I can help people therapeutically so that they are better at their game. I think that’s kind of missing the point, hypnosis isn’t magic? I’m not saying I can’t help you – I just don’t think you need help – I believe pickup should be technique driven, about the things you do,…

What Is It Like To Suck With Girls? Well… May 12th, 2004. This was the day the day I graduated from college and things have never been the same since. The Real World kicked my ass. Hard. I wasn’t a good corporate employee, and drifted from one white collar job to another. I didn’t take orders from managers very well and this hasn’t changed in the years after graduation. The one thing I had going for me was my interviewin…

…is an approach that capitalizes on being direct, but Alex can only ensure this approach will be met with success after he has personally worked with his clients to change their inner mindset. He has worked with men from ages 15 to 50 all over the world, and believes that cost should not be a factor in getting help for taking your life to the next level. As such, he makes a number of resources in achieving your own personal goals available at no…

…n be useful but the term is just ridiculous. Sounds more like a Chinese takeaway dinner than a useful technique. 6. Hot Babe (HB) – Quick Definition: A beautiful woman, or any woman, rated on a scale of beauty from 1-10. Can also stand for “Hunny Bunny”. The hot babe scale rubs me the wrong way sometimes. Guess what? Every guy has a different opinion of which girls are hot, and which are not. One guy might think blondes are the hott…

Top Five Pickup Artist Forums Looking for a place to hang out and get the goods on being a pick up artist but don’t know where to start? Check out our detailed and comprehensive list of the top five pickup artist forums that will give you a good place to start.  Here they are, in no specific order. Example of one of the better run forums – the RSD forum welcome screen 1. Real Social Dynamics (RSD) Nation Forums http://www.rsdnation.com/for…

…ssible again. During the seasons, contestants would live together and be taught certain methods or techniques in the art of the pickup. The teachers were best selling author Mystery as the lead coach, and his wings. In Season 1, J-Dog was his wing, and in season 2 he mixed things up a bit by bringing in a woman, Tara Ferguson as his wing. After the players were given instruction, they would be given challenges where they had to participate in rea…