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  • Beta Male Shaming

    Quick Definition: The tendency of women (and sometimes men) to shame a provider-type or beta male if he steps too far from the confines of his more provider-type flirting style. Full Definition: Women hold the provider male / beta male to a different standard of conduct, sometimes subconsciously, for their own genetic reasons. They need these guys to be able to provide for them and therefore cannot reveal her true sexual nature for fear of…

    Secret Society

    …aware of. 10) Secret society members COME FIRST. If someone in the society is not having fun with an interaction, it is cut off. Conversely, if a secret society male is with a non-secret-society male, and a secret society female (all females) decides she wants sex from the secret society male, the friend of the female may have sex with the non-secret-society male, because EVERYONE in the interaction must feel good. However, if the…

    Alpha Male

    …member of the group. For example, in wolf packs, the “alpha wolf” is the strongest member of the pack, and is the leader of the group. This position of leadership is often achieved by killing or defeating the previous Alpha Male in combat. Alpha wolves have first access to food as well as mating privileges with the females of the pack. Social status among human social groups is less rigidly defined than in the animal kingdom, but there are some…

    Beta Male

    …the provider types, the average Joe who has a decent job and who some girl might eventually want to marry—but only after they’ve had their fun sleeping around with more attractive alphas. Funny video parodying alpha vs. beta males and female responses: Being Beta is generally seen as something to be avoided in favor of the alpha ideal. The term is used as a noun (“George is such a beta!”), an adjective (“Try not to act so beta around girls”),…

    Alpha Male Voice Resonator

    …o center and relax myself. I don’t have the time to give you my entire workout right now, but I will concentrate this small tutorial with the basic exercises that you will need to obtain, maintain and sustain the Alpha Male Resonator. 2. “Glottals Times Three : Ed Is An Odd Egg Up On An Eve” Okay, you see that weird phrase up there that starts with “Ed” ? I want you to only use the vowels in each word. Sustain this…

    Alpha Male Of Group (AMOG)

    Quick Definition: An aggressive male who is competing for the attention of the target. Or used as a verb, the act of taking attention away from another male so that he is no longer a threat. Also referred to as “Alpha Male Other Guy.” Full Definition: The AMOG may or may not be a BF of the target, but he asserts himself as leader of a group. If un-diffused, he will try to break the PUA’s game, usually with challenges to his material….

    The Creed

    …le The alpha male is dominant. He’s not an asshole. He’s the guy who chooses women. He’s having fun and he’s confident. The alpha male isn’t a condescending jerk. Model the alpha male. What are his qualities? To me, an alpha male is: Qualities of the Alpha Male Is “The Man”Hard to pleaseUnemotional, slightly serious. Gives smiles and laughs as rewards.Talks slowly, deliberately. Enunciates.Doesn’t ask for things.Is not afraid that others might…


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