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  • Fluff

    Quick Definition: Small talk that has no significant meaning but fills the conversational space or need that occurs between seduction phases and bounces, or an extraction. Full Definition: Some amount of fluff talk is necessary for building comfort, as well as keeping a target’s logical brain from focusing too much during a bounce or extraction. Ideally, a PUA’s game should be tight enough to not require fluff talk; however sometime…

    How to Transition to Natural Game

    …ruent. I mean seriously. To go out of your way to learn girly topics of conversation, just to have permission to talk to chicks is SUPPLICATION. Entering a females reality just so we can talk to her for a few minutes with the hopes of fucking her is ridiculous! Here’s an analogy. What if a girl went out of her way to learn all about sports or cars or (insert masculine topic here), even though she didn’t really like or understand these…

    Neg Compilation from various PUAs

    …as me. I like tall girls (LIFT). Are those heels 4 or 5 inches (DROP)? You blink alot Your nose wiggles when you talk Weren’t you wearing this dress the last time you were here? Excuse me may I finish my sentence first? Oooh Sick You just spit on me! (when the girl is talking to you). Your hair looks kinda nice Challenge Mystery: YOU: I don’t think we should get to know each other. HER: Why? YOU: I think you are just too much of a NIC…

    Pre Lay Relaxation Mode (PLRM)

    …or not does not matter to him, the more likely his target will have sex with him. It is generally a bad idea to talk about sex at all at this point, instead using fluff talk and light kino to amp up the sexual tension. The point of PLRM is not to push for sex, but to create a comfortable atmosphere and transition smoothly into the bedroom. Notice how Anika and Hank are relaxed before sex. The PLRM can also happen while in bed, joking and playing…

    The Approach Mindset

    Hey, this is Bobby Rio from Make Small Talk Sexy… and today I wanted to talk to you about the idea of developing an “approach mindset.”I’ve been coaching a lot of guys recently, and one thing that keeps coming up is this idea of the “approach mindset.”  Sometimes this is referred to as being “in state” or “in the zone.”  And today I wanted to explore some ideas and concepts I’ve found u…

    Nine Steps to a Solid Day 2 (And Why Girls Flake On Dates)

    …nd understanding date flakes by Organic It seems that a common sticking point for a lot of guys is that they get talking to a girl, things are going well, they like her, and then they just say goodbye. Or other times, they get her number, or even set up a date, but the girl never shows up, and Fake numbers, flakes, girls losing interest, excuses: “I’m busy washing my cat.”… Our goal here isn’t just to talk to women and the…

    10 Characteristics of Alpha Behaviour

    …r a while.”, or “I could do that, but I’m having a bad day.” Similarly, they don’t talk excessively about all the chicks they’ve laid, or all their girlfriends, or all their success. WHY? Because they don’t even GIVE A FUCK enough about you to even tell you about it. They ASSUME that you’ll think that they’re the shit, because they ARE. TALKING ALOT / TOO MUCH IS VERY OFTEN INTERPRETED AS QUAL…


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