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State Change

Quick Definition: AKA “State break” when state changes negatively or breaks into another state less desirable for seduction. A noticeable…

Emotional Tampon

Quick Definition: Also known as “social tampon” or “social circle tampon.  A guy (or sometimes a girl) who allows others…

Emotional Value

Quick Definition: The emotional currency in social interaction; the “value” you give to others and others give you to in…

Emotional Leverage

Quick Definition: The power of associating strong emotions (can be negative or positive)  to an action or to a process…

Secret Society

Quick Definition: A Romanization of the very real behavior of how women truly have and manage sex in regards to…

Emotional Spiking

Quick Definition: The process of spiking intense positive or negative emotions in a target. Full Definition: Emotional spikes are important…

Emotional Stimulation

Quick Definition: Stimulating and influencing a woman to respond to you via her emotions as opposed to logic. Full Definition:…

Emotional Intelligence / Social Intelligence

Quick Definition: Also known as “Social Intuition”, Emotional intelligence is a measurement that describes the ability, capacity, and skill to identify,…

Party Girl

Quick Definition: AKA Party Girl Ass. The type of girl that is either naturally in “party mode” or going through a…

Pacing

Quick Definition: Matching or getting in touch with a person’s emotional state in order to build rapport and the lead…

Emotional Connection (EC)

Quick Definition: Connecting to another person beyond just the physical level by sharing feelings and relating emotionally. Full Definition: Emotional…

Anchor

Quick Definition: An association of an emotional state with a physical touch, body motion, or a verbal phrase. Once created,…

Nick Savoy

Nick Savoy was Mystery’s business partner. Prior to joining the game, he studied business and graduated from Wharton with an…

Interview Pickup

Quick Definition: A boring date consisting of interview style questions. Full Definition: “Interview pickup” is a somewhat derisive term that…

Connection Triggers

Quick Definition: Hardwired triggers in female and male psychology that when triggered, causes a feeling of deep emotional connection and…

Backwards/Reverse Rationalization

Quick Definition: The process of rationalizing emotional and behavioral decisions based on logic that makes sense for the person. Full…

Vulnerability

Quick Definition: An exposure of one’s personal areas of weakness or sensitivity. Full Definition: A strong part of game is…

Tyler Durden (Owen Cook)

AKA “Tyler” or “Owen Cook”. Tyler Durden is a mainstay of the seduction community. His archives are analytical, insightful and…

Moment of Decision

Quick Definition: A moment in time full of emotions whereby the artist has a fundamental core identity shift and decides on the path of…

State Control

Quick Definition: AKA “Vibe Control”. The ability to control one’s own state or the state of a target. Full Definition:…

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