emotional connection

The following are all the articles related to emotional connection from PUA Lingo, the Pick Up Artist's Encyclopedia. You can also browse our PUA Terminology List for a full list of PUA terms and acronyms.

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Connection Triggers

Quick Definition: Hardwired triggers in female and male psychology that when triggered, causes a feeling of deep emotional connection and…

Emotional Connection (EC)

Quick Definition: Connecting to another person beyond just the physical level by sharing feelings and relating emotionally. Full Definition: Emotional…

Emotional Leverage

Quick Definition: The power of associating strong emotions (can be negative or positive)  to an action or to a process…

Emotional Value

Quick Definition: The emotional currency in social interaction; the “value” you give to others and others give you to in…

Emotional Stimulation

Quick Definition: Stimulating and influencing a woman to respond to you via her emotions as opposed to logic. Full Definition:…

Emotional Spiking

Quick Definition: The process of spiking intense positive or negative emotions in a target. Full Definition: Emotional spikes are important…

Pacing

Quick Definition: Matching or getting in touch with a person’s emotional state in order to build rapport and the lead…

Reward & Relate

Quick Definition: A conversational technique for genuinely listening to a person, rewarding them when they make a statement, and relating…

Vulnerability

Quick Definition: An exposure of one’s personal areas of weakness or sensitivity. Full Definition: A strong part of game is…

Girl Close (GClose)

Quick Definition: A close (number close, kiss close, fb close) that leads to a full close. Full Definition: Girl close…

Apocalypse Opener

This is a short opener based on creating instantly high attraction due to the ballsy nature of the opener. The…

Interview Pickup

Quick Definition: A boring date consisting of interview style questions. Full Definition: “Interview pickup” is a somewhat derisive term that…

Nick Savoy

Nick Savoy was Mystery’s business partner. Prior to joining the game, he studied business and graduated from Wharton with an…

Rapport

Quick Definition: A feeling of mutual trust and authentic connection with another person. Full Definition: While attraction can take place…

Trance Words

Quick Definition: From NLP, words spoken by a person with strong emphasis and repetition that indicates its special meaning to…

Fractionating

Quick Definition: A process of taking someone else into and out of a mental state rapidly and thereby intensifying that mental state…

Oneitis

Quick Definition: A “disease” (hence the ‘itis) where a man is stuck on one girl, and feels that she is…

Trust Test

Quick Definition: A request for compliance that requires a level of trust from the target. Full Definition: This is a technique…

Backwards/Reverse Rationalization

Quick Definition: The process of rationalizing emotional and behavioral decisions based on logic that makes sense for the person. Full…

Eliciting Values (EV)

Quick Definition: A way to draw out, through conversation, the values of a person, usually with the intention of understanding…

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