emotional connection
The following are all the articles related to emotional connection from PUA Lingo, the Pick Up Artist's Encyclopedia. You can also browse our PUA Terminology List for a full list of PUA terms and acronyms.
Connection Triggers
Quick Definition: Hardwired triggers in female and male psychology that when triggered, causes a feeling of deep emotional connection and…
Emotional Connection (EC)
Quick Definition: Connecting to another person beyond just the physical level by sharing feelings and relating emotionally. Full Definition: Emotional…
Emotional Leverage
Quick Definition: The power of associating strong emotions (can be negative or positive) to an action or to a process…
Emotional Value
Quick Definition: The emotional currency in social interaction; the “value” you give to others and others give you to in…
Emotional Stimulation
Quick Definition: Stimulating and influencing a woman to respond to you via her emotions as opposed to logic. Full Definition:…
Emotional Spiking
Quick Definition: The process of spiking intense positive or negative emotions in a target. Full Definition: Emotional spikes are important…
Pacing
Quick Definition: Matching or getting in touch with a person’s emotional state in order to build rapport and the lead…
Reward & Relate
Quick Definition: A conversational technique for genuinely listening to a person, rewarding them when they make a statement, and relating…
Vulnerability
Quick Definition: An exposure of one’s personal areas of weakness or sensitivity. Full Definition: A strong part of game is…
Girl Close (GClose)
Quick Definition: A close (number close, kiss close, fb close) that leads to a full close. Full Definition: Girl close…
Apocalypse Opener
This is a short opener based on creating instantly high attraction due to the ballsy nature of the opener. The…
Interview Pickup
Quick Definition: A boring date consisting of interview style questions. Full Definition: “Interview pickup” is a somewhat derisive term that…
Nick Savoy
Nick Savoy was Mystery’s business partner. Prior to joining the game, he studied business and graduated from Wharton with an…
Rapport
Quick Definition: A feeling of mutual trust and authentic connection with another person. Full Definition: While attraction can take place…
Trance Words
Quick Definition: From NLP, words spoken by a person with strong emphasis and repetition that indicates its special meaning to…
Fractionating
Quick Definition: A process of taking someone else into and out of a mental state rapidly and thereby intensifying that mental state…
Oneitis
Quick Definition: A “disease” (hence the ‘itis) where a man is stuck on one girl, and feels that she is…
Trust Test
Quick Definition: A request for compliance that requires a level of trust from the target. Full Definition: This is a technique…
Backwards/Reverse Rationalization
Quick Definition: The process of rationalizing emotional and behavioral decisions based on logic that makes sense for the person. Full…
Eliciting Values (EV)
Quick Definition: A way to draw out, through conversation, the values of a person, usually with the intention of understanding…
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