conversational jiusitsu
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I Perspective
Quick Definition: Using the first person perspective when telling a story or having a conversation. Full Definition: The “I” perspective…
Vacuum
Quick Definition: A conversational void deliberating created to to elicit a thoughtful response from the other person. Full Definition: The…
Conversational Rapport
Quick Definition: The degree of comfort, ease and genuineness of the conversation between 2 people. Full Definition: Conversational rapport does…
Interview Pickup
Quick Definition: A boring date consisting of interview style questions. Full Definition: “Interview pickup” is a somewhat derisive term that…
Conversational Jujitsu
Quick Definition: Various techniques from Juggler for navigating and controlling the flow of a conversation. Full Definition: Conversational jujitsu is…
Cutting the Thread
Quick Definition: The act of ending conversational threads that are no longer useful to the artist and/or introducing a new…
2 Second Rule
Quick Definition: The technique of pausing for two full seconds after someone has made a statement, to ensure that they…
Shut up and Lead (SUAL)
Quick Definition: Refers to the critical window of opportunity where the artist should stop talking about irrelevant things and simply…
Multi-Threading
Quick Definition: The concept of creating and playing with multiple threads within a conversation. Full Definition: Multi-threading is a natural…
Charisma Arts (CA)
Quick Definition: A PUA company that teaches natural game founded by Wayne Elise, aka Juggler. Full Definition: Charisma Arts is…
Reward & Relate
Quick Definition: A conversational technique for genuinely listening to a person, rewarding them when they make a statement, and relating…
Fluff
Quick Definition: Small talk that has no significant meaning but fills the conversational space or need that occurs between seduction…
Portal Words
Quick Definition: AKA Keywords, Trance Words. Full Definition: Every person has their collection of favorite words within their vocabulary….
Open Ended Question (OEQ)
Quick Definition: A question that cannot be answered with a short or one word answer. Full Definition: An open ended…
Filling in the Canvas
Quick Definition: A way of delivering information about yourself that makes other people’s minds piece together little bits of information…
Dance Floor Monkey
Quick Definition: Better than a “dancing monkey”, the dance floor monkey is an average to above average dancer who uses…
The Warm Alpha
Before we dwell into the realm of attraction and connection building, we need to talk about a certain set of…
Boundary Function
Quick Definition: The way in which an artist manages people’s behavior in relation to what is acceptable to him and…
Warm Alpha
Quick Definition: The congruent behavior of an individual (usually a man) who conveys all the alpha qualities of a tribal…
Juggler (Wayne Elise)
Wayne Elise, aka “Juggler” is an instructor of pickup and conversational skills. Wayne was one of the first pickup “gurus”…
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