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  • Sacrificing the Lamb

    By on February 7, 2014

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    Quick Definition: Doing the first few sets without fear of the outcome and viewing them as necessary sacrifices to perfect the game.


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    Julien’s ideology of the “lamb” extends to newbies and pros alike. “A sacrificial lamb is a metaphorical reference to a person or animal sacrificed (killed or discounted in some way) for the common good”.

    At some level, you have to turn off the “personal friend” communication frequency and view these social interactions as practices. Much like a salesman who is trying a new technique, you are now in the business of social dynamics and you need to practice other behavior patterns.

    The idea of the lamb means that no matter what happens, these are just sacrifices and necessary to gain momentum throughout the night. It helps newbies get over approach anxiety. Taken too far, artist can view “sacrificing the lamb” as treating people like animals and not giving a damn about them. This is not the case. You’re simply viewing this interaction as a chance to practice your social skills.

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    Depending on you game style, usually, the sacrificial lamb is not the hottest girl in the club.

    Usage: Nervous? Cool go sacrifice a few lambs.

    Related Terms: Blowout, C&B, Eject, Rejection, Set, Outcome Independence, Process Over Outcome, Warm Up Set, Blow Out Opener, Approach Anxiety

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