PUA Openers
Openers are what PUAs use to get conversations started with the women they're interested in. PUA openers can range from a simple "hello" delivered with a cocky smile, to elaborate stories crafted to get their targets interested in them. Below is a list of PUA openers, both specific techniques, as well as general categories of openers that pick up artists use to get into set.
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Blow Out Opener
Quick Definition: An opener designed to blow the artist out in order for him to practice being comfortable with rejection….
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Canned Opener
Quick Definition: A memorized and practiced opener that a PUA uses repeatedly to open sets and start an interaction. Full…
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Compliment Opener
Quick Definition: A sincere and unique compliment used to start a conversation with a girl of the PUA’s interest. Full…
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Direct Opener
Quick Definition: An opening line or statement that conveys direct interest in the target or set. Full Definition: Direct openers…
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Flopsy
Quick Definition: An opener where the PUA comments on something that a woman is about to focus on. Full Definition:…
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Focus Opener
Quick Definition: A type of opener where a PUA starts a conversation by talking about something that the woman is…
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Functional Opener
An opener that has a specific purpose within the given situation can both be part true and part plausible deniability of the artist hitting…
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Improvisational Opener
Quick Definition: An improvisational opener is similar to a situational opener, except that it contains elements of drama and make…
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Kino Opener
Quick Definition: Approaching and opening a girl without words, via body language and kino. Full Definition: Getting a girl’s attention…
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Opinion Opener
Quick Definition: A type of opener used to start a conversation by eliciting a woman or a set for their…
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Shocker
Quick Definition: A type of opener that creates a “shock” emotion from the target, both IOI and negging the target…
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Situational Opener
Quick Definition: An impromptu opener where the PUA draws upon something that is going around him in order to start…
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Tactile Opening
Quick Definition: A creative way of opening a girl, or getting her attention without other people being aware of it. Full…
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"Are You Shy?" Opener
Are you shy? Because I’ve been here all night and you haven’t even come over to talk to me.
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"You're a Herd" Opener
Originally from Jeffy, the “you’re a herd” opener is a slightly quirky, witty and smart opener. PUA: “You’re a HERD!”…
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80s Dog Opener
Summary: Hey guys, I need a quick opinion about something. My friend just got two puppies, a Pug and a…
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Amazing Sadness Opener
Credit: Tim from RSD On boot camps, Tim suddenly decided to reverse the role of the students with him, the…
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Apocalypse Opener
This is a short opener based on creating instantly high attraction due to the ballsy nature of the opener. The…
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Dating for Dummies Opener
Go find the Dating for Dummies book. It’s bright yellow and black. Find the page that has “NEVER USE THESE…
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Dental Floss Opener
A classic field-tested way to open a set. Keep in mind that this one may be played out by all…
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Drink DHV
Open the first set by saying: “hold this up for a sec, thanx..”Leave your drink in one of the girls…
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Drug Dealer Opener
“Hey, I need your opinion on something…does my friend here look like a drug dealer?” (chicks usually either laugh or…
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Fashion Tip Opener
An original and highly underrated opener by kooper. Open a girl by telling them how they would look even better…
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G-string Opener
Hey girls, I need female opinion on something..please give me some advice…My friend totally fucked up his relationship with his…
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Glasses On or Off?
Approach Girls – Glasses off (take glasses off)26 – Glasses on (put glasses on)26 – What do you guys think…
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Hi I am an asshole…
…Will you be my friend though?If she says “yes”, you are in.If she says “no”, agree and say, “yeah, I…
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I'm Lost…
PUA: “I’m lost… I can’t find my friends and I’m scared… Remember when we were kids and you could just…
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Introduction Opener
This opener will only work if you already have social proof and have a good, friendly vibe. PUA: (grab unsuspecting…
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Jealous Girlfriend Opinion Opener
This is a well known opener in the community. You ask a girl about her opinion about relationships, breakups, and…
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Khaki Opener
“Hey, guys, my friends and I were making fun of some frat boys, and got into an argument…is khaki a…
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Picking Up Chicks Opener
Simply open with “Hi, we’re picking up chicks”. The vibe control must be cocky and funny and slightly non reaction…
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Pimp Names Opener
PUA: Hi Guys, I’m coming up with a pimp name for myself, which is better: “d-licious dogg”? or “deacon dr. rockafella”?Follow-up:…
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Plant and Stare Opener
by Tyler Durden My favourite opener lately is to just walk up to girls and just stop. Like plant myself…
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Seattle GF Opener
Credit: TD “Hey guys, I need an opinion. My friend met this girl in Seattle, and they really hit it…
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Sincere Compliment Opener
“Hey…are you someone confident to accept a sincere compliment?!!!””Hee…hee. Sure.” or “Cool” (Calibrate depending on your perceived social value)”Cooool. Me…
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Sincere Compliment Opener
Developed by RSD, this opener goes something like this: Papa: Hey…are you someone confident to accept a sincere compliment?Hot Aussie…
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Tatoo Opener
PUA: Hey guys, would you ever get a Tattoo? Here’s the deal…my nineteen-year-old sister wants to get her boyfriends name…
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The Jealous Cat
My friend has been going out with a girl for about three months and they get along really well, they…
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The Simpsons Opener
Credit: Gunwitch Hey do you ever watch The Simpsons? Why has Marge never left Homer, I mean she’s a sexy…
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Two-Part Kiss Opener
By Style (Neil Strauss) If a guy is dating a girl, and she goes out to a bar… and gets…
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You are SO… in my way
One of the biggest problems guys have in opening is giving too much value away to the girl, or conveying…
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You think I'd look sexier if I was wearing that?
Find the strangest dressed guy in the club and ask this one. This opener uses style, the gay factor and…
