Reframe
Quick Definition: To say or do something that alters the context (AKA “frame”) through which someone sees an idea or situation.
Full Definition:
Reframing is a key strategy in all areas of life, as even data can be subjective. There are many ways to reframe in a PU situation.
If the girl is shit testing the PUA, he can reframe with a smarter remark, or ignore her altogether. For example:
HB: Are you trying to pick us up? (in negative tone)
PUA: Is that the first thing you say to anyone who approaches you? I had a simple question to ask the group, but its alright, I will ask someone else more polite.
The PUA can reframe via the prizing mentality:
HB: So what are you doing this weekend?
PUA: Huh. Why, do you want to do something?
HB: No! I was just asking everyone around the table
PUA: That’s cool. Let me know if you do. Don’t be shy.
Life is short, we only have about 25,000 days to live on this Earth.
Life is long, the decisions we make today can effect the rest of our lives 50 years from now.
Usage:
Reframe the situation to your advantage and call out the CB for being a mother hen.
Related Terms: Frame, Prizing, BHRR, Inner Game, Push and Pull, Banter, Hoop Theory, Neg Theory, 101, Congruence, AMOG, Precedence
Definition by Vince Lin
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