Polarity / Sexual Polarity
Quick Definition: The contrast of the nature of male and female energy.
Full Definition:
Polarity is a concept originally developed in chemistry, whereby the energy charge of the atoms interact with one another depending on the charges of positive and negative atoms. In a social realm, polarity is the state and control of masculine and feminine energy. In general, a high masculine energy will attraction females, and a highly feminine polarity will attract men. Scientifically speaking, masculine cues include testosterone levels, which regulate a man’s muscles, jawline, pheromones, among other things. High levels of estrogen produce full lips, coke bottle bodies, a more feminine voice, among other attributes.
Aside from hormones and genetics, artists can manipulate clothing and lifestyle to heighten or lower polarity. For example, a PUA can get tattoos, piercings and leather jackets to increase masculine polarity. Women use makeup, hair, high heels and fabric layers to heighten feminine energy when they go out. Creating polarity via state control, and maintaining positive interactions that have GOOD vibes and POSITIVE emotions will override logic with women.
Levels of sexual polarity, once observed and understood relates to social value and RAS. That is, the person with the most polarity of his or her sex will generally stand out and be more attractive to the opposite sex. Likewise, if a man is too feminine and a woman too masculine, polarity and sexual attraction decreases between the sexes.
There are exceptions to this rule, however, where a man can be more feminine and still considered sexy. David Bowie, for example crosses the gender line between masculine and feminine energy but is still sexy. Amy from Evanescence has a hardcore masculine edge, and also retains some of her feminine attributes. In both cases, a conscious control of polarity in the artist’s image helps them become even more intriguing. Keep in mind, however that despite high degrees of polarity, the artists both retain the essence of the male and female traits, which reflects the true nature of who they really are.

David Bowie

Amy from Evanescence
An example of strong female and male polarity can be found in celebrities Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie:

Usage:
Try to create a strong masculine polarity with your new look and move away from the “gay” vibe.
Related Terms: Role Reversal, Sexual Stereotype, RAS, Social Value, Group Theory, Buying Temperature
Definition by Vince Lin
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David Bowie has some really eccentric personality but i like his style of music. he is a good actor too..*,