Nice Guy
Quick Definition: The typical AFC, who is very nice and polite to people, but often times lacks a certain selfishness that conveys his own self worth and attractiveness.
Full Definition:
There are many types of nice guys. The orbiter who spends countless hours of his time listening to the problems of his very attractive female friends because they need someone to talk to about their bad boy boyfriend, the nice older guy who uses his money to take of younger girls for favors, the asexual male friend who tries to court his girlfriends to no effect, even the BF who the girl occasionally fucks but is planning to break up with, among many others.
The underlying theme of the nice guy is not that woman aren’t attracted to politeness and genuine qualities of man, but rather, most nice guys do not have a healthy sense of entitlement of what they deserve in life. In other words, sometimes anger and cockiness deserve a place and time given the situation. Standing up for yourself is important to S&R, and thus is an attraction trigger in courtship (and many-a-Hollywood nerd to rockstar movies).
Nice guys tend to end up in the “Just Friends” zone:
Kezia Noble shares her insights on “nice guys”
Usage:
You’re too much of a nice guy, there’s no edge or roughness to your aura.
Related Terms: Bad Boy, Beta Male, Alpha Male, Sexual Selection, LJBF, NRFR, Orbiter, BBF, Wussy, Emotional Tampon.
Related Links:
- Nice Guy Research on Wikipedia
Source: Pop Culture
Definition by Vince Lin
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