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Let's Just Be Friends (LJBF)


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Quick Definition:A statement uttered by women which essentially closes the door to a sexual relationship; being put in the friend zone.


Full Definition:

LJBF is a common way for women to try to soften the blow of rejecting a man’s sexual advances. LJBFs occur usually because an AFC builds too much comfort with a woman, without building any attraction, and is often a precursor for oneitis.

It is extremely hard to enter a sexual relationship after one has been LJBF’d, though it can be done through the use of jealousy plotlines, pre-selection, and DHVing. Usually, it is best to just make one’s sexual intentions clear upfront, so that a PUA does not waste his time chasing after someone who is not interested in him. An LJBF that happens at the beginning of a relationship is much better than one that occurs after investing a lot of time chasing after a woman.

Kezia talks about how to get out of the friend zone:

Usage:

I was LJBF’d by the last girl I dated.


Related Terms: Friend Zone, AFC, Oneitis, Precedence, Jealousy Plotline, Direct Game

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  1. Reserpino  •  Posted 7 months ago @ 12:11 pm

    Dear friends, my nickname is Reserpino. I am Italian, so… Sorry for my English.

    I really like Gambler’s book and I really trust him, because his seduction theory is supported by a lot of study and experience.

    I am a medical student, so I think that a lot of trials are necessary for believing that something is true.

    I would be happy if you could give me some clarifications about Gambler’s theory.

    My question is really simple (and it is addressed in particular to people who agree with Gambler):

    Sometimes we know a girl in a context in which we can’t talk to her for more than three-four minutes.

    Contexts in which we can’ t be immediately seductive, because we are at work, for example in a hospital (we are doctors and she is a doctor).

    So… Is there a way for slowing down the seductive process without risking the friend zone?

    Can we use the SAME SEQUENCE OF INTERACTION ACTIONS Gambler shows in “Natural Game” in situations that we like to develop slowly?

    So: Can I be mr. sociable for the first 2 minutes one day, then mr. comfort for the first three minutes another day and then mr. seducer another day?

    And, in general: how do you think the seduction process works in a situation like the one in my example? Maybe in these cases the sequence mr. sociable > mr. comfort > mr. seduction don’t have the same value. What’ s your opinion.

    Thanks

  2. LionKing  •  Posted 3 months ago @ 3:43 pm

    Watch a show called “Grey’s Anatomy”, observed how Dr. Shepherd and other male doctors hit on their fellow female doctors. Hope it’ll help!

  3. Dean Fox  •  Posted 1 month ago @ 2:21 am

    Interesting, with the video though it would have been better had it not been filmed backing on to an open window, too much back lighting. Next time face the window with the light coming from behind the video camera, makes for a better video.

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