SOME of the guys, not all, fortunately some of you do seem to have a clue what you’re talking about.

I’m a 24 year old woman, I’m tall, blonde, thin, attractive, intelligent, used to model was ‘scouted’ in my youth but I hated it. I’m not gonna call myself a 10 because to me pretty much no one is a 10, except maybe a couple of really hot actors/actresses, I tend to mark people as a 9 at the highest. I’m a catch anyway that is for sure, and I do get hit on all the time. The problem is though, that when it comes to very attractive women, who do you think hits on us? It’s the over-confident, often sleazy, arrogant guys that hit on us. Other guys oh they LOVE to talk to the really hot women, they love to try and get close to us, try and get some time with us, have a little chat, admire our beauty, but do they make a move? MOST of the time they don’t, because MOST of the time they think “why bother? She obviously get’s hit on all the time and probably by much hotter guys than me” – and yes I’ve actually been told that. Not that I don’t already know it. So there is one reason why a woman might want to learn a few PUA skills. Because part of being a PUA is about the way you make the other person feel, and having some control over the reactions they are having towards you. I don’t want guys to feel intimidated by me, for example.

Another thing is, take into account personality a bit. Not all women are the same. Not all men are the same. People are different. In general we are told men like the thrill of the chase, and in general that’s true. But you know what, some women love the thrill of the chase too. Especially when it comes to high-achieving women that are used to taking the wheel, they don’t want the guy that tries to pick them up, they want to be one doing the picking up. There is nothing wrong with that, and if you think that all guys are like you (PUA’s) then you can’t know that many guys. So many guys don’t have the confidence to hit on women, they have to get really drunk before they will even try, and by that point they are just a drunken, slobbering mess.

Also, the whole idea that men are only after sex and women are after everlasting love is a total myth, I know women that pretty much only want sex and a bit of fun from guys, and I know guys that are totally romantic and always want to have a girlfriend or be in a relationship, and who “don’t do” ONS. Well, what of the women, especially women who have reached an age where most people are actually looking for something serious (I don’t mean me, at 24 it’s an even mix of people who just want to fuck around and people looking for something serious), who only want sex? They are just the same as any guy PUA who is looking for casual hook-ups and ONS but has to pretty much lead a girl on to get her in to bed.

You should put easy links to the Female Guru page here & in the contents!

I am not trying to be rude or anything, I am just offering advise in the hopes of helping you and do not intend to create hostility.

No you are wrong about men always wanting a slit between you skit to keep them invested. I have chatted to women who were moderately attractive and dressed in winter clothing, and they knew how to build rapport with me and that was what made me want to sleep with them. Now I won’t lie, physical looks are important to men and I am assuming you would have looked up the evolutionary basis for this,but it is not everything.

See men just need someone to have commonalities with someone, some one they can feel warm emotions with. Unfortunately society has thought men to suppress this because” it is unmanly”, so this only makes it harder for women, but still possible by keeping a high energy and an enthusiastic frame while making sure your content builds rapport. It is not unmanly to express emotions or to feel emotions, it is unmanly to not be able to control emotions.

The men that chat to you just because your beautiful are not bad per say, just deprived of sex cannot control their emotions. But don’t worry , most men you meet in the day time are not like that, only some of them.

Calling men prey is a very bad mentality to begin with. This mean that you are very goal oriented and most like have some sort of objectification towards men. objectification only clouds you judgment. When I stopped objectifying women, I could think clearly while talking to women and be more expressive with my emotions.

When I talk to girls, I do not think of them as prey, I think of them as people that I am getting to meet, and I do not even have thoughts of wanting to have sex with them, just thought of meeting a new friends. Yes they are attractive, but that does not mean I automatically mean I want to have sex with them.

See I think you have a problem of just enjoying a conversation for what it is and enjoying socializing, when I had this problem ,I never had liaison with women, but now I do because I think about wanting to be intimate with them mid-way during the conversation. And if the conversation was too casual, then I’ll just be friends with them.

Learn to enjoy the interaction process. There is no such thing as faking it til you make it, I tried that and so many other people I know have and they got nowhere. Improving your social skills and enjoying it is what is important as well.

Well, I not only want to attract guys but want the game to be fun for my prey as well. I want it to be as worth while to them as it is for me. A little bit of chase, a little bit of conquer and we all go home happy for the night.

I understand that a good bit of what goes on in the pua theory and techniques may not necessarily apply to women. I see that learning some pua skills help females who like to be the aggressor. I see many aren’t tailored to women but with some alterations could work. Females need to know what to do once they are in front of their prey. You know, how to chat them up enough to get the message across? I mean I could be blunt and say “I like you. Now fuck me” but that is not enough. More than likely he will oblige but where is the fun and challenge in that. In addition to knowing what to say, I need to know the body language to convey my attractiveness and interest in them. I really don’t think words are enough. I would like to give the illusion that not only do I want what he has but make him think he wants to give it to me as well.

I don’t even mind being a victim for someone else but once again I want the game to still be fun for the both of us. I don’t want to just to be a boring person while he applies game on me. I know i can say yes to everything and do all the right ioi. I don’t want to just have decent to good sex but beyond that come across as bland.

Regardless of me being the aggressor or the victim, i want to come across as an enchantress. Its no fun just screwing them. As it has been mentioned many times before, it is not hard for women to get lays. So how do i keep up score while playing the game. My points come from having men come back for more whether it be for more sex or trying to date me. I want them to want me for more than just for looks. I want to posses that je ne sais quoi. Please don’t take this as me wanting them for more than sex or momentary company. Right now i really don’t want any type of relationship beyond fuck buddy, booty call or one night stand.

These are the skills I want to learn. I cant find many published step by step manuals to teach me this. I may find a post here and there. I want more substance than the small chapters in Robert Green’s art of seduction. I’m not looking for skills on how to snag a man and keep him.

Also regarding your bag of tricks(ie. makeup, clothes , hair and etc), don’t you learn that while growing up or from you female friends who can re-teach you that. Even a younger niece or sister can help out with that. A hair stylist can help out with you hair and a good fashion store can easily fix you up. I know all this because I roam about with my females friends who told me they do this stuff when they forget how to groom up for a big day/night.

Regarding women that used to be super attractive and lost it since a break-up and have forgotten how to be fpuas, this is a mind set issue, not a question of learning all this . You just need to find that inner part of yourself that radiates happiness and positivity and it will all work out. Remember men are attracted to positivity and a bubbly nature and high energy , work on the high energy part of it.

Although I havent officially gotten back in the game, I would like to prep myself before I do jump in. Currently, im getting hit on by 5s and down. This does not please me. As we all know sexual arousal starts with the mind. If he is not hot and has barely anything to compensate for that, how on earth am I suppose to be turned on. Merely looking at a dick just doesnt do it for me.

So instead of waiting for 5s to come my way, I want to go after at least 7s or higher. Im not sure if the fpua techniques are any different from the regular pua ones. We all know that im going to have to pull out my bag of tricks to give an illusion that i am way more attractive (ie. makeup, clothes , hair and etc). I’ve forgotten how to do all it. So my looks as well as game have all been lost. That is where fpua techniques are needed in my case.

I hope my reason for wanting to learn fpua skills makes sense for why a woman would want to practice these techniques.