Eye Contact (EC)
Quick Definition: Non-verbal communication that is communicated through the use of the eyes.
Full Definition:
Eye contact is one of the subtlest yet most powerful forms of body language. The eyes can be used to communicate a variety of emotions and intentions, and learning to control one’s eye contact, and learning to read the eye contact of others, is an important skill for a PUA to develop.
One telltale sign of an AFC with weak inner game is their avoidance of eye contact, so a PUA can convey alpha characteristics by confidently returning the gaze of an HB, and maintaining steady eye contact throughout the interaction. Seductive eye contact can also be used as a way for a PUA to communicate their sexual intent without using words, and arouse a woman into a sexual state.
Women will often use eye contact to communicate as well. Friendly or sexual eye contact from a woman, or even avoidance of eye contact, can serve as IOIs and AIs. Women also often exchange eye contact as way to communicate their approval or disapproval of a PUA through eye coding. Learning to read these signals can be a way for the PUA to identify warmer sets and get their bearings in a social situation.
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Maintaining eye contact is important for conveying confidence.
Related Terms: AI, IOI, Eye Coding, DDBL, Direct Game, Alpha
Definition by Vince Lin
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