Being Present
Quick Definition: The process of fully experiencing the current moment in all of its capacity.
Full Definition:
In our individualistic (US) and capitalistic society, we often rush through life trying to get things done, become the next boss, or get to the top. On our journey we often lose sight of the very great things and experiences that happen to us everyday. The savory flavor of the food on our table, a smile from a cute girl crossing the street, the stillness of the moment when an idea arises.
In pickup, I often see guys who rush through routines, or try to get the next bit out, without really genuinely listening to the girl. Looking into her eyes and being genuinely interested in her, (without sexual intent) for the moment.
Without taking a kiss or a moment for more, or less, than what it is. Simply a kiss. Most guys think of it more, or they start thinking of having sex with a girl as soon as she expresses interest. Such is the demonstration of lower value on his part, because a high value man will not have sex with just any girl who is interested in him. He has many choices.
Meditation also applies to other areas of life, but most notably in pickup in sex. The true feeling of being in the moment, of experiencing every sensual feeling during sex is not often practiced by many men. Women and men from countries such as Italy and Brazil are more sensual, and in touch with their sexuality because they are present in the moment.
Next time you do a cold approach, try being present in the moment.
Although a bit spiritual, Christine does a good job helping one focus on the moment in this video:
Usage:
Being present allows you to enjoy your food more!
Related Terms: Inner Game, Us Bubble, Momentum, Emotional Connection, Opening
Definition by Vince Lin
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