Comments on: Approach Anxiety (AA)

By: Kilgore Jr.

Kilgore Jr. — Thu, 02 Feb 2012 09:51:57 +0000

Do you speak English, asswipe?

By: Stevekins

Stevekins — Mon, 03 Oct 2011 05:47:39 +0000

Its better to learn to approach a girl wit@ takin pills,cox d pills do hav an systemic health effect.
try 2c d girl u approaching as ur closest pal, who u want to hav a fun tym wit as usual.

By: Alfonso Soriano

Alfonso Soriano — Fri, 11 Feb 2011 23:58:52 +0000

haha approach anxiety… who doesn’t have it. i feel like even some of the best of the best out there have approach anxiety. but i wish you didn’t have to deal with the nerves that go along with approaching a girl. i hear that an aspirin or two could really calm you down so you don’t have that feeling. there’s even an approach anxiety pill now called a2x approach anxiety exterminator. i think either one might be worth a try

By: kaide73

kaide73 — Mon, 06 Dec 2010 06:20:18 +0000

I have found some funny stuff, that works against the AA and also otherwise helps me to keep right attitude during my pick-up:

I must watch this video sometimes, especially every time before I go out in order to pick up some girls. I’m sure that if I keep that attitude especially during my pickup, lots of pussy will come through all my doors and windows. :-)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wS5xOZ7Rq8

And if I ever happen to have some approach anxiety during my pickup, all I need to do is to remember that video and it makes me smile. Then I say to myself: “Naaah! I don’t give a fuck! And by the way: I am a sexy motherfucker!” After that I can very easily just go and start picking up that girl. Done that, been there!

By: kaide73

kaide73 — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 17:23:22 +0000

Pardon my English. It is ”Stand-up comedy”.

By: kaide73

kaide73 — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 05:47:18 +0000

I think this mind-trick alleviates my AA very much: I just think about these facts sometimes and especially right before I approach: One of my hobbies is collecting autographs of celebrities. It has never been difficult for me to go to some celebrity and ask his or her autograph. Celebrities are just people, after all. So, why on earth it would be any more difficult to go to some girl and start talking to her? Of course, I also need to have some opener and other routines in my mind, so I really have something to say.

Also participating storytelling-night (AKA Cuentacuentos) is good thing: I learn to perform my story I am going to use during storytelling phase of my pickup. On the other hand, if I really dare to tell my stories or otherwise perform in front of audience, then talking in front of some girl is just a piece of cake.

BTW I have heard, that also doing stand-up comic as hobby for a while is good for learning pickup, but I haven’t done it, yet.

By: Johny

Johny — Sun, 02 May 2010 08:43:42 +0000

I did approach a couple of women with my friends this couple of days and it’s easier to approach when you are with your friends it’s more exciting and a lot more fun.Right now i agree with you if we lose the fear of approaching then it wont be interesting and exciting it will be boring

By: Approach Anxiety Destroyer

Approach Anxiety Destroyer — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 21:26:22 +0000

I find just automatically saying hi to anyone that gets within 3 feet of me reduces my approach anxiety over time! Great Article!!

By: Chris @ SeductionHQ

Chris @ SeductionHQ — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 06:42:41 +0000

Yeah… it can be pretty tough, but you can improve the results of your approaches by a lot. This will help you build approach confidence, which will eventually help you get rid of approach anxiety for good.

By: Matrix

Matrix — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 03:46:46 +0000

yeah, AA is rooted in biological evolution. Our emotional circuitry could not keep up with the speed of societal evolution