Abundance Mentality

Quick Definition: The belief and life perspective that there is no shortage of hot girls to meet in any man’s lifetime. Rather than viewing the number of girls in a man’s life as a limited supply, the PUA sees the world as chalk-full of girls to meet.

Full Definition:

In tribal society and the world before today, there existed approximately 50 people per tribe. Initiating a courtship with the wrong woman, or crossing the wrong authority figure could mean being a social outcast of that tribe, and thus genetic death to a human hundreds of thousands of years ago.

Since the industrialization and population boom in the world today, humans have experienced a infinitely large increase in wealth, technology and opportunities in our world. One may argue that given the advent of the internet, we live in today a world that is more connected and more entrepreneurial than any other time in previous history.

The opposite mindset of the “abundance mentality” is the “scarcity mentality”. This is a mindset that we have a “fixed” amount of resources, and that one must be careful to pursuing and using up his/her resources to achieve one’s goals. While the scarcity resource serves us well if we were stranded on an island, in today’s modern world, it generally keeps us in check from authorities and in our assigned places in society. The abundance mentality is an important truth during one’s self development.

There are certain things that are finite, but in reality are actually still quite abundance. Time is finite, we only live once. Money is infinite, feelings are infinite, memories are infinite. To this extent, the PUA must not be afraid to approach sets. To fail and learn from his mistakes. To be afraid of what others might think about him approaching girls in public places. There are more than enough girls for one to approach and master pickup with in this life.

So go out there, and reap the rewards of your talent and efforts!

There are more girls on this planet than one can meet in a lifetime.

Usage:

Whenever we go out, try to come with a sense of the abundance mentality as it relates to opening sets and picking up girls, alright?

Related Terms: Next, Process Over Outcome, Target-Rich,

Definition by Vince Lin

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