PUA Lingo is proud to partner with Seductive Instinct, a trailblazer group of dating and seduction masters with offices in Campbell, California. Since 2009, AlphaWolf and Casual has worked with Arash and the Seductive Instinct crew to host local seduction events and mastery programs in style, lifestyle design and lifestyle change.
If you’re seeking the teachings of a true master of seduction, learn about the Secrets of Attraction bootcamp below:
Secrets of Attraction Bootcamp Schedule
February 17-19 San Francisco Bay Area
Mar 30 – April 1 Los Angeles, CA (With James Matador)
April 27-29 San Francisco Bay Area
May 25-27 Reno, NV
-THE SCHEDULE-
Day 1: Creating Attraction | Fridays
Introduction and Correct Mind Set: Precedence is the most important thing to understand. As a student you must be fully aware of what you are learning and what to expect from these three days with Arash. You will develop a frame of mind that is ripe for learning and getting the most of of your experience here.
Secrets of Attraction: Without revealing everything, this segment will show you, once and for all, the underlying principles of Attraction and Comfort that Arash has obtained and mastered throughout his journey.
Opening and Communicating: You will learn the core fundamentals for starting conversations with any woman. You don’t have to be genetically gifted or her type to be able to hook her into wanting you to stick around. With the techniques that you will learn anyone can start a conversation with the hottest women. First you’ll learn and practice the concepts: what to say, what not to say, body language and state of mind. Then we’ll go infield and practice with women.
First you’ll learn and practice the concepts: what to say, what not to say, body language and state of mind. Then we’ll go practice night game in field with beautiful women.
Day 2: Master Yourself Inner Game | Saturdays
Debrief: Going through the best (and worst) parts of the day before, and cementing the lessons that were learned from the game.
Strength through inner game: If you want to be attractive to women you must exude confidence. It is a must. If you don’t have it, you won’t get the girl. Period. Women are biologically programmed to test us for strength and if you fail these tests you will lose the girl.
You simply must learn to control your anxiety and that means changing the limiting beliefs you hold which are generating it. A lot of guys have the dis-empowering belief that they are not good enough. Not good looking enough, not rich enough, too young, too old, not her type, etc.
As long as you have these beliefs in your mind, no matter what techniques you learn, you will subconsciously communicate weakness to women and this will make you unattractive to them.
We will teach you how to re-program your mind to eradicate these limiting beliefs that are making you weak and holding you back from living a more enjoyable life.
Generating internal power through technique and guidance will create the mindset of a true alpha male. Controlling your mind enables you to break from being a servant to your thoughts.
The mind is powerful and will be your ultimate weapon which you can develop to create a real illusion and redefine your identity.
Going deep into attraction:
First, train with your mind. Then, with your heart. Here you will see demonstrations, and run drills to develop attraction which will fit your own personality and lifestyle.
We know from evolutionary psychology that all women have hard-wired attraction switches and if you flip them she will have no choice but to be attracted to you. This is a systematic approach to creating attraction even if you’re not her type. Meaning: attraction is not a choice.
We will show you why you don’t have to change who you are to get her attracted to you. Rather, by emphasize those aspects of your personality and lifestyle that are attractive to women no matter what your line of work or interests you can begin to attract any woman you want.
On the other hand, you will also understand the concept of demonstrations of lower value (DLV). We will show you how to identify and remove those parts of your communications where you are unknowingly communicating lower value to women and making them unattracted to you.
Creating attraction is a super power that consists of more than the techniques above.
We will dive deeper into attraction and give you the subtle nuances that will make you feel powerful. There are ways to touch her, show her you are a social guy and get your wing to help you get her.
Is She Good Enough:
Most men believe they have to qualify themselves to women but it’s time we get our balls back. With your new found power to create attraction, you will be able to flip positions and get her qualifying herself to you.
Imagine having the power of choice. The power to say yes or no to her.
If you follow the step-by-step process, you will not only avoid being put in the friend zone, you will have her being infatuated with you. She will be the one chasing you.
You’ll learn how to go escalate from attraction (where she is curious about you), to create sexual attraction (where she is wanting to fuck you).
Practice on beautiful women: You will be introduced to beautiful women and get direct, quality feedback of your delivery and presentation of game with a true 9 or 10.
Follow Up Game: Learn how to make sure those number closes don’t flake out, and how you can keep the girl interested in you for longer. This includes text game, phone calls, and follow up dates.
Infield Practice: This is the best part; we are going to hit the BEST clubs in the area, armed with secret attraction techniques that most guys don’t know anything about. You will be able to pull out all the theory and put it into practice with proper guidance and help from your coaches. This will enable you to receive instant feedback and know what you need to work on as you practice.
Infield Practice: This is the best part; we are going to hit the BEST clubs in the area, armed with preexisting social proof. By this point you already experienced the feeling of having a 9 or 10 attracted to you. You will be able to pull out all the theory and put it into practice with proper guidance and help and consistent feedback from your coaches.
Day 3: Lifestyle Mastery | Sundays
Debrief: Going through the best (and worst) parts of the day before, and cementing the lessons that were learned from the game.
Specialty: The content of this section of the boot camp focuses on different forms of knowledge. The is going to be more advanced knowledge that will help you change your mind set and the way you get the girl.
For this particular boot camp Arash will talk about the magic of story telling and how you can get her feeling different emotions. You must understand that you don’t have to change who you are but you have to tell your stories differently.
Imagine being able to completely control her emotional state by the way you tell her your stories.
Style Review (Bonus): Get fashion and style advice and feedback from one of our girls and a Style review from Vince Lin.
Long Term Change: Putting together a process for yourself to continue this change, and learning the necessary steps to become a master. Learn about the resources we use exclusively to message and keep in touch..
What You Get:
- All of Secrets of Attraction trainers will be giving you detailed feedback and encouragement, and they can all work on any level of game, whether you are a beginner or on an advanced stage. We believe in honest and inspiring feedback, and will venture into negative feedback when it is deemed needed. We use negative feedback moderately
- An invite to an exclusive group on Facebook with past students to discuss progress, events and lessons in game
- A full style evaluation and consultation from a very hot woman.
- A 1 sheet list of things you are good at, and things you still need to work on.
- A long term plan for developing your game consistently over the next 3 months.
- You get exclusive invites to future Seductive Instinct events with VIP access.
- After you’ve taken the course once you can come back once more within the next year to take the Friday and Saturday sessions again for free.
- Access to follow-up coaching to help you put into practice what you’ve learned in the boot camp in the coming weeks.
To register, please email training@pualingo.com and answer the following questions:
- Why do you want to take a bootcamp?
- What do you feel like is the one biggest thing that’s stopping you from reaching your dreams in dating?
- Have you read and completed reading the Mystery Method?
Full Disclosure: Our partnership with Seductive Instinct does not preclude us from continuing to recommend other dating firms. If Seductive Instinct isn’t the right fit for any reason, we encourage you to look through our list of partners and dating coach companies and review all of the user feedback for yourself.
We endorse and recommend Seductive Instinct because of our history of working positively together on projects. Please note that we also receive a small commission for referring students that sign up to Seductive Instinct’s program.





