Guest Post By Zack Bauer from Date Hotter Girls

When the guys at PUALingo asked me to write an article called ‘How To Pick Up Girls’ I have to admit, I was a bit concerned.

Not because I didn’t have anything to say on the subject, many glory stories could be shared or epic fails that we could laugh about together.

Instead my concern was how could I possibly convey how to pick up girls, something I have devoted my entire life to teaching guys how to do, in a single blog post.

So I’ll save the philosophical discussions for another time and simply get down to the ABSOLUTE ESSENTIALS of picking up girls. I promise that if you can get these simple things down, you will see immediate results that will shock you…you won’t even need any coaching or anything!

So here it is for you exclusively at PUALingo – The Zack Bauer Essential Pickup Checklist

1. Get Your Swagger Up!

I’m sure you have heard the old expression put your best foot forward. If you make a great first impression it not only makes the rest of the pick up a lot easier…we have heavily tested this. Instead of having to constantly work to sustain an interaction, you can get a girl really interested in you and pursue (or chase) you.

This means smile, breathe, stop sweating excessively, and fix your posture!

2. Go!

Most guys blow the pickup because they never approach in the first place.

Don’t reject yourself before you even give the girl a chance to!

3. Talk Slow And Calm

Don’t rush to get your words out or you will give her the impression that you are nervous. Instead, think of what a cool and calm celebrity would sound like. Would they rush to get their words out? Would they talk to quietly to be heard? No! So neither should you.

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Do you live in a big city? Well if you do, then you’re in luck. You can date many, many attractive women by increasing your awareness with this article.

Big Cities usually have more interesting things to do on a daily basis versus smaller ones. Literally everyday there’s some festival, social event or mini-marathon, and in terms of groups, cliques, and places to go to big cities never fail in terms of diversity of cultures. Big cities are hot spots if you want to discover all sorts of things. When I usually do a program in a big city, some of my ladies there take me out during my off-duty. We can go from having some authentic African food using our hands, to checking out some architectural wonders, to having some unique cocktails at a futuristic-looking bar, to going to a hippie party the next day.

Now, here’s the “blind spot” that most guys are missing out on:

Women in big cities usually have

a) A very limited amount of friends, usually 3-4 in their core group, and

b) Are very, very bored. Most usually stay at home.

I had this conclusion after several years of flying in and out of big cities to do programs. Whether it was New York, London, San Francisco, or Singapore, a lot of these women basically stayed home if their core groups weren’t out! When it finally dawned on me that women in big cities were very bored with the lack of “action” I literally made sure to take advantage of that.

Case Study I: “I’m bored, I think I’ll go out with him…”

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It’s happened to all of us before: we see a girl, we are attracted to them, and we want to figure out how to go say ‘Hi’ in a way that will melt her heart and her nether regions. You walk up to her, your knees shaking, and you freeze. Nothing comes out. And you start to stutter and stammer, just like you did in high school…oh wait, is that just me? I digress, but you can relate.

For some reason, we have created this image in our head that there is a ‘right’ way to approach a woman that we find highly acceptable and a ‘wrong’ way to do it. We need to get that out of our heads. We need to understand that it just ‘is’. Once we can fully grasp that, it becomes easier to move onto the next step in our approach. And this step comes long before we ever open our mouths. It happens even before we learn what to say and how to say it.

We’ve heard it before countless times but confidence is the most attractive thing to women. Once we are confident in who we are and where we are going in life, it seems that what we say and how we say it comes out naturally. We aren’t worried about what we are doing or if we are following this certain pattern because, well, we know how freaking amazing we are and what we have to offer and we are merely going up to this girl to see if she is a good fit for our lives.

This mentality is crucial for approaching women. For too long have men put women on pedestals and thought that they had to lower the women’s status to make themselves look higher. And this works for the short term. But long term, this is merely a band-aid for a gapping wound in your game. Confidence, once again, is the key to attraction. Know what you have to offer and know what you are looking for. Walk in with the idea of wondering, rather than lusting.

Now that we have the confidence and the mindset down, we can finally think about what to say. I like to group ‘openers’ into three categories: low risk, low reward (LL); medium risk, medium reward (MM); high risk, high reward (HH). Each one has it’s pro’s and con’s but they also have a certain niche in each style of game that they fit.

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Hi guys,
I came across Ryker when he was putting together Asian Dating Superstars. He interviewed Asian PUAs about getting good with game and getting past a lot of the fallacies and pitfalls Asian guys come across when learning game. I declined the interview at the time because:

1) I value my anonymity

2) I didn’t think I was at the master level where I can impart very useful advice to others, although I do consider myself an intermediate PUA.

In reviewing “Asian Dating Superstars” I was impressed with the clarity that guys like Xavier (TDD), Jeremy Soul (Love Systems), RedPoleQ, DJ Fuji and many other guys. Asian or not, they had similar mindsets and distinct differences to their approach in game. I figured I would do a blog post about this since I personally know many Asian guys who have either left the game or are struggling to get what they want out of game (and life).

Exclusively on PUA Lingo, we are giving you the FULL interview with Jeremy Soul of Love Systems. This interview covers:

• What it is like for a Southeastern guy from Sri Lanka and how to think about learning pickup in a larger context.
• How Asian cultures may differ with western culture about how to approach girls
• Day game openers and how it is different (not not) for an Asian guy in London and other parts of Europe
• Dealing with Asian stereotypes such as being short, more feminine, or even having a smaller penis
• And much more!

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We got a tip from Dan Rose himself on his exclusive interview with DJ Fuji. In it, he talks about his journey in game, and how he went from a guy who can’t get it up to sexual mastery.The interview covers:

• Why 95% of the guys are not giving women the orgasms they want
• The concept of sexual arrogance and how to get past it
• Re-framing about sex the wrong way
• How sex changes between different ethnicities, and why most Asian men are not dominant
• Psychological stimulation over physical stimulation
• How to live out sexual fantasies and role play with your girl
• A few easy beginner steps to make sex better and more dominant
• Community Guys sex skills versus Normal Guys sex skills
• How this can help guys in relationships
• Tantra and the concept of sexual immersion
• How a small detail like breathing can affect sex
• Using NLP in the bedroom

Sex Advice, Techniques, And Mindsets For Men Part 1

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