Who?

I met Josh at a gathering of internet marketers in the dating niche in LA. He looked non-threatening and very approachable. In speaking with him at the dinner table I realized that he was a perfect combination of warm alpha.

He’s approachable and friendly without giving up authority and the importance of what he knew in his head.

He had a way about him that was very likable, as you will likely see in the video below.

Why Listen?

1. Josh is one of the natural dating coaches that evolved separately from the seduction community, his techniques are focused on natural behavior patterns. More than other teachers, he focuses on pattern recognition in body language and sub-communication
2. He is the author of the recently released Tao of Badass
3. I talk to him about how to spot DTF girls
4. He tells us his journey from a lonely, overly nice guy to being the man that he always wanted to me
5. He shares his story about “that one girl” who he knew he has to become a better man for
6. He talks about techniques when you’re alone at the bar, or when you’re there with a group of guy friends

Where?
Learn more about Josh and get his free videos at http://www.thetaoofbadass.com/

Who?

Brad P really needs no introduction. A man who has develop his own style of natural game, he has helped hundreds of guys with his personal coaching and his products.

Why Listen?

1. We talk about how to spot “DTF” girls
2. Brad explains his strategies for one night stands
3. The evolution of long term coaching
4. Dealing with phone number flakes
5. How to really get good and what it takes to  become a master at pickup.

Where?

Find his blog posts and the 30/30 club at BradP.com

Brad P Masters Interview

Who? 

A guy to whom I learned a lot from and who resides in the San Jose, South Bay Area.

Why?

• He has the best mechanical game and mastery of MM of any guy I’ve seen in person.
• Also we will be doing a series of instructor interviews here on PUA Lingo.
• Help students as well as up-and-coming instructors on what it takes to become a master at game.

My interview with Arash

Last Year we asked you to vote for your favorite PUA in 2010. This year, instead of one vote, we are going to take your choices and do a 2nd blog post with the 10 top votes and the 10 worst votes. Make your voices heard!

Guest post by Alex from CollegeFlirt.net

You are at the mall and you have just seen the proverbial girl of your dreams. The time has finally come. The months you have spent lurking in your house learning every form of seduction ever created by man are at last going to pay off. Routines stacks, you know them all. NLP, pshh it has become like your second language. The hilarious thing is you have even mastered natural game, so you do not even need to rely on technique. Yes my friend, this is in the bag! There is nothing you do not know about flirting with girl and creating massive attraction, this should be a walk in the park.

You approach and a funny thing starts to happen though. Your heart starts beating faster, you start to sweat a little and you develop a very small nervous twitch. You awkwardly walk up to her and quickly spout out the best routine you know, layered with hypnotizing word patterns and everything you have ever learned packed into it. You SAY it perfectly, but you are speaking WAY to fast.  Then the impossible happens, the girl starts to get nervous and uncomfortable like you are painful to be around. Within moments she ejects like you are a walking STD. How could this happen? You literally KNOW everything! Well, there is still one thing you have failed to master. Understanding on how to relax when you are talking to a girl.

This is one of the biggest stealth killers of attraction and is getting guys devastating blows left and right outs without them even realizing why. This is simply because it is rarely mentioned in any form of detail in PUA teaching. However, if you watch any great pick up artist they all incorporate it with near perfection. Whether you are watching Neil Strauss, Tyler Durden, or Adam Lyon they all perfectly relaxed and comfortable in a set. It almost seems like they have done it a thousand times. (Oh wait they have!)

So why is this so important? The cold hard truth is that people can sense how you are feeling by how you are acting pure and simple. The keyword there is HOW you are acting, not what you are saying. If you are incredibly nervous your emotional state will literally be pushed onto people around you and you will not be able to perform any type of game. Girls have to be relaxed to some extent if they are going to be aroused. Have you ever talked to someone that was stressed out, panicky, and nervous? Can you remember how you wanted to get away from them as fast as possible? This is exactly what you do to women when overlook incorporating relaxation into your skill set.

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Lots of guys learn game, but few of them really understand the underlying principles and how to apply it. Recently, I got in touch with a local bay area artist and his game is off the charts. Unlike well known instructors like Tyler Durden and Mystery he isn’t famous in the seduction community. He simply learned the skills and got good with them at his martial arts gym and his club promoting lifestyle in the south bay.

Arash interview teaser with 2 girls:

Here is one of his interviews with girls he regularly meets, and some funny outtakes with Playboy model Jenny Rae. (If you don’t know who she is, check out her pages here and here.)

If we get enough comments, we’ll get a step by step dissection of how and where he’s running game in the videos AND post the full Secret Diaries interview with Jenny Rae. If you’re into the club girls that are 9s and 10s,  you should checkout the free podcasts and videos from Arash at Seductive Instinct.com

Jenny Rae Preshoot footage having fun: