How to Respond when a Girl doesn’t Remember You

Guest post by Rob Judge

It’s Monday afternoon. You scroll through your phone about to “play the numbers,” meaning you’re about to text all the girls you met over the weekend. Some girls were hot, others were…well…nice.

Regardless, you send them all a personalized text: her name, a flirty greeting, and a little joke the two of you shared. Then you sit back…and wait.

Almost immediately, your phone lights up with a response. You read the sender’s name and get excited! It’s a gorgeous little hotty—a girl you thought would be a TOTAL flake! Amazed at how fast she hit you back, you do a little dance to the gods of game and then flip open your phone. Your heart’s pounding, your hands are shaking, you hold your breath, and read…“Who is this?”

The ultimate buzz-kill.

You can’t BELIEVE it. You’d called her phone on the spot, precisely to PREVENT this situation! Now it’s as if you’re back at SQUARE ONE. You wonder if it’s EVEN worth responding AT ALL…

Well, for those who’ve experienced such (un)forgettable disappointments, I certainly feel your pain. Any guy who’s been out collecting his fair share of numbers is bound to hit a few amnesiac babes. But I’ve found the situation to be salvageable if you make a few crucial moves.

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The power of Troy Dizon Dating’s teachings is that they were derived by watching naturals who had never consciously tried to develop a method of picking up women.  They were discovered by Troy after going out over and over again, meeting dozens of men who learned their own ways to attract women, and carefully putting together what they all had in common.

I mean, let’s be realistic here.  I have a life that involves performing as an actor and as a musician.  Not only do I write for my website, Chicago Falcon, but I also write sketches and screenplays.  I have a day job.  I rehearse several times a week.  I exercise.  I live a life that I’m very happy with.  Where am I supposed to fit in time to go out and meet women?

The answer of course, is that meeting women is a part of this lifestyle.  By living the life that I enjoy, even though it’s extremely busy, the quality of it, and my enthusiasm for it, is more than enough to show women that I am the kind of man who knows what he’s looking for out of life, and is not afraid to go after it.  And they find this very attractive.

From talking with and watching naturals I have determined that there are only three elements necessary to draw a woman into my world and show her enough of my personality to have her coming home with me or waiting for our next date together.

The first element is the development of my core values in life.  These are the rules and philosophies that guide my life, both my day-to-day life and my long term, lifelong goals as well.  How well do you know own habits and behavior?  Have you ever gone on a date with yourself?  How about meditated?  Or perhaps taken an acting class?  Or moved to a new city without knowing anyone?

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• Kezia tells us about her experience day-to-day as a PUA trainer
• Kezia explains how pickup has changed her life
• Kezia reveals the secrets of the best naturals
• Kezia shares how to pickup her model girlfriends off a cold approach
• Kezia talks about her upcoming book, 15 Steps To Becoming A Master Seducer

You can find more about Kezia at Kezia-Noble.com and PuaTraining.com. Be on the lookout for her book coming out in May 2010.

Guest post by DJ Fuji

Routines, scripts, lines, things to say. Some love ‘em, some hate ‘em, nearly everyone misunderstands them.

For those who are unfamiliar with the term, a routine is simply something that you tend to say more than once. In other words, a memorized script of varying length. So in essence, both our kneejerk “fine” response to the question, “how are you?” and a rehearsed, pre-scripted story are routines. One is simply longer and more complex than the other. Obviously, all of us use routines in one way or another.

Routines (whether yours or someone else’s) can also take the form of being canned, meaning that you’ve practiced them over and over again until you can deliver them well, or Stock, which means they’re generic, off-the-shelf scripts, usually created by others. Both can be useful tools, especially if you’re just starting out or if you don’t have a lot of natural talent.

Now before we move on, let’s take a quick quiz.

Question: What do you think is the main purpose for routines? What is the main purpose for openers? Now what is the main purpose for attraction routines? Stories?

Think about it for a minute.

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Hey guys, this is a guest post exclusively for PUA Lingo by Johnny Wolf, Senior Instructor for The ABC’s of Attraction and co-founder/co-host of the PUA Summit

The Perfect Time to Pick Up:

Timing is everything, and that is especially true when it comes to meeting women and being on top of your game.

Midnight – 2am:

The most common time for guys to run game is around midnight until 2am.  This includes naturals and PUAs a like, since it takes some time for warm up for most PUAs, and some time for naturals to get some drinks in them.

Pros: Great for getting over approach anxiety since people are starting to drink and get buzzed, everyone is feeling social, and social circles break apart so there will be single girls and two sets walking around.

Cons: Everyone else is sarging at this time as well, AMOGs come out, and bitch shields come up.  Plus this is the hours that girls are most likely to forget who you are when you call since there is so much alcohol and stimuli.

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Hey guys Preston Blain here from over at Social Masters. My pal Casual asked me to write a guest post and here I am

To start this post I have a question for you. Would you rather have a huge array of techniques at your disposal but little confidence in oneself, or would you rather have great confidence but only a little technical knowledge?

See most people I know who are into the Pickup scene have great knowledge of techniques but lack the confidence to put any of it into action. This situation will definitely end in tears. You will feel like you should be meeting loads of women but you aren’t. You will get frustrated because you will look at others and think “I am so much cooler than him, but he is getting the women. If only I had the confidence I would show them…”.

I know because when I started learning how to pick up women, I focused only on techniques. I believed that by gaining knowledge about meeting women would give me confidence. That I would learn how to do it then rush out into the real world and smash it so to speak. It didn’t.

I would go out with a friend on mine. Someone who was not interested in learning how to meet women because he was already pretty successful. Not because he was naturally good with women, but because he had balls of pure steel and a never say die attitude.

He is the sort of guy who not only had the confidence to approach women on a regular basis, but also no matter how many times he got turned down he would keep going. Where as I, at this particular time, would feel the fear so badly that I would not approach women at all. I would just sit back and watch him in action.

So the thing is, having the confidence to approach women one after another, even if you are not great with women will be more successful than someone who knows every single aspect of pick up and yet does not approach women because they lack the confidence to put their knowledge into action. If you don’t approach then you have no hope in hell (unless you have one of those rare moments a girl approaches you).

Now I am not saying confidence is everything. All I am saying is that learning technique after technique will do you absolutely no good unless you put it into action. You must remember to develop your mental toughness as well as your technical ability.

Catch you laters,
Preston Blain

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Preston Blain is David Black’s right hand man over at Social Masters, a blog designed to teach men how to get a girl. He helped create the cutting-edge course that teaches men how to flip womens’ attraction switches naturally: ‘The Death Of Game’.