This is a well known opener
in the community
. You ask a girl about her opinion about relationships, breakups, and ex-girlfriends. Three topics girls constantly dwell on.
PUA: Hey guys, let me get your opinion on something. I’m trying to give my friend over there advice, but we’re just a bunch of guys and not qualified to comment on these matters.
PUA: Okay, I’ve only got a sec. See [Name Of Your Wing] over there? Well, he has been dating a girl for three months. And she just moved in with him. Now, this is a two part question. So, imagine you’ve been dating someone for three months. And he is still friends with his old girlfriend from college. How do you feel about that?
Girl: [Girl responds.]
PUA: Yeah, they’re just friends. There’s nothing else is going on. They talk like once a week at most.
Girl: I think its fine / I don’t think they should be talking / whatever
[Roll off a bit, then continue the routine
PUA: Okay, now let’s say that he has a drawer in his apartment. And in that drawer he keeps all of his old letters and pictures. Some of the letters are from his ex’es, some of the pictures are of him and his ex’es.
Girl: [Girl responds – possibly with a concerned comment.]
PUA: It’s not like he ever looks at them. They are just there–like old souvenirs and memories of his past.
Girl: I think its fine / I think he should put them away in a closet / He should destroy them / whatever
PUA: Okay, the reason I’m asking is because [Name Of Your Wing]’s girlfriend says she doesn’t want him to talk to his ex from college at all. She wants him to cut it off completely. And she wants him to destroy all of his old photos and letters from ex’es. She says it’s just holding onto the past, and he should let go of it now. Personally, I thought it was extreme and a bit insecure. But what do I know. I’m a guy. And, as we all know, guys think differently from girls…
Girl: [Excited responses.]
PUA: God, this is just like watching The View.