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  • Inner Game

    By on December 22, 2008

    Quick Definition: The area of game that deals with one’s personal development, inner beliefs, core values, and life goals.


    Full Definition:

    Inner game is the core of pickup. While learning techniques can help convey the characteristics of a man who has strong inner game, to remain train truly congruent as a pickup artist, one must develop solid inner game.

    Developing strong inner game will help one to overcome congruence tests, shit tests, and other obstacles one comes across in the field. No matter how hard one tries to hide one’s faults and negative beliefs, they will always express themselves somehow through unconscious subcommunication that a woman will pick up on. Thus, overcoming one’s insecurities and negative thought patterns is ultimately the best way to DHV oneself and communicate alpha characteristics.

    One of the best ways to develop a strong inner game, ironically enough, is to develop one’s outer game. Developing a sense of style, improving one’s body language, and developing social skills will ultimately lead to changes in one’s self-image and core beliefs. This in turn will help lead to better results in one’s outer game, leading to a positive feedback loop.

    Other ways to develop one’s inner game are through positive self-talk, affirmations, journaling, and other methods of self exploration. These will lead to a stronger sense of identity and allow one to keep a strong frame while out in the field. Ultimately, inner and outer are linked together, and both should be worked on to develop a solid game.

    As expressed in Style’s Social Robot post, most mPUAs have passions outside of pickup and the presence of girls that make them happy. By leading a fulfilling life that others (including women) want to be part of, an artist ultimately wins in the game of life.

    Usage:

    You’re focusing too much on techniques; you need to develop your inner game.


    Related Terms: Congruence, Passive Value, Grounding, Affirmation, Identity, Frame


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  • One Comment

    • Will

      This is my personal seduction affirmation list. It’s mostly to help me be successful with women but also has a lot to do with having self-esteem, confidence and a healthy psychological state of being. Feel free to use it and share it with others. It took me a long time to build this list and I have found it extremely helpful. Using these affirmations has forever changed my life and I’m sure it will change yours too!

      Everything in your life has to do with your psychological state of being. You are your thoughts and your thoughts are you. Change your mind and you change the world. Your external reality is nothing more than a reflection of your internal reality. Do not look out there, look within. Work on your inner self and inner world first then everything else will change for the better.

      Perception is Reality. How you perceive the exterior world determines what your experience of it will be. These affirmations may seem outrageous because they are. Embrace them absolutely and completely, trust me on this one! The human mind cannot tell the difference between what is real and imagined. Being “delusional” is how you get good at life.

      Beliefs of Naturals – My Reality

      Read 3 times before bed and in the morning(do it for a for month) Record in the second person. Play recording on a loop continuously at a low volume(whisper). Play recording during the day and at night while sleeping.

      1. Being with me is the best possible choice for any woman.

      2. Women love men and especially love me.

      3. I love life!

      4. I am God. I am Perfect. This is my universe!

      5. I am fearless, courageous and bold!!!

      6. I read incredibly fast!

      7. Women love sex and want sex from me.

      8. My intelligence, creativity and potential is infinite!

      9. I am exceptionally social and outgoing.

      10. I am completely focused, organised and use my time with the utmost efficiency.

      11. Women are nurtures and pleaser’s who want to nurture and please me.

      12. I am an infinitely self-assured, confident, sexual and dominant male.

      13. Everyday in every way I am better and better!!!

      14. I have complete control over my life, mind and psychological state of being.

      15. I am the greatest genius this world has ever seen.

      16. I heal instantly!

      17. I am successful, confident and achieve my goals. I exude infinite sex, power, confidence, happiness and self-love all the time.

      18. I can be, do and have anything I want to in this world, my possibilities are endless!!!

      19. I love myself! I am complete, fulfilled and completely happy!!!

      20. I am growing more beautiful and luminous day by day.

      21. Everybody loves me and all women want me! I make friends easily.

      23. I access all the knowledge in the universe.

      25. I am completely irresistible to women!

      26. Regardless of how she is reacting to me she is getting aroused.

      27. I see the underlying truth in all things.

      28. I am an adventurer! I travel the world!

      29. Regardless of how she is reacting to me I am the prize she is trying to win over!

      30. I am a multi-millionaire and master seducer!

      31. I love what I do and am richly rewarded, creatively and financially.

      32. I have a perfect photographic memory! I recall everything easily.

      33. Since she wants to have sex with me, the power is in my court to decide whether she lives up to my standards and expectations. I get to decide if we have sex.

      34. I create my own reality!

      35. Today I love my body fully, deeply and joyfully.

      37. Today I open my mind to the endless opportunities surrounding me.

      38. Prosperity surrounds me, prosperity fills me, prosperity flows to me and through me.

      39. I have sex with super hot, confident, loving, caring and intelligent women with genius IQ’s all the time!

      40. I think positively every day, all the time.

      41. I attract amazing people.

      43. My body is now trained to burn fat and build muscle day by day.

      44. I have a six pack of abdominal muscles.

      46. I am filled with the light of love, peace, happiness, power, success and joy every day, all the time.

      47. I am aggressive, direct and powerful with the women I desire. I radiate a confidence, self-control and charm that women find irresistibly attractive.

      48. My mind is focused on what I desire and I go for it congruently and powerfully.

      49. I take immediate advantage of my opportunities with women. I swiftly establish incredible rapport, gather the information I need, then close with aggression, power and finesse.

      50. I radiate a natural, easy self-acceptance that women find irresistibly attractive.

      51. I am mastering the responses, attitudes, behaviours, insights and timing that bring me irresistible power with the women I desire.

      52. I am now approaching women that I am attracted to.

      53. I am able to pick up and attract any women I desire.

      54. I am a strong, powerful, aggressive, dominant, alpha male, leader and conqueror!!!

      55. I am smooth, charming, interesting and fascinating!!!

      56. I have a perfectly sculptured muscle ripped body.

      57. I am super hot and sexy, all women want me!

      58. Abundance is my natural state of being!

      59. Money comes to me easily and continuously from multiple sources!

      61. My IQ and intelligence increases daily rapidly!!!

      62. I have clear beautiful skin!

      63. I have lucid dreams and recall all my dreams with complete clarity!

      65. All things are now working together for good in my life.

      67. I rule the world! I am brilliant and perfect in every possible way!

      68. I succeed in everything I do!

      69. I have sex with one thousand super hot women!

      70. I am now enjoying everything I do and feel happy just being alive.

      71. Sex with super hot women comes to me easily and effortlessly.

      72. All things are now working together for good in my life.

      73. I have the infinite creative power of God within me.

      74. I am a Bad Boy, Player, Natural and Ladies Man!

      75. I am a Sexy Beast! Everywhere I go women want to fuck me!

      76. I have sex with supermodels daily.

      77. Supermodels have an incredible desire to fuck me wherever I go!

      78. I attract whatever I desire.

      79. I am the most desirable man in the world. I am God’s gift to women.

      80. Supermodels and incredibly hot women proactively, persistently and aggressively seek me out to fuck me.

      81. Beautiful women are extremely persistent with me for sex.

      82. What I believe is reality. Women experience me as extremely intoxicating, exciting and addictive.

      83. I am a catch and out of her league, any woman that’s with me is very fortunate to have my attention.

      84. Beautiful women are extremely attracted to me on a deeply subconscious level.

      85. Women are perverted creatures who are always trying to fuck me.

      86. Every morning I wake up in bed with twenty supermodels.

      Attitude of the The Prize

      You got to be a bit self-centered, a jerk and an asshole. The difference between nice guys and Alpha males: Nice guys place a woman on a pedestal, Alpha males place themselves on a pedestal. Just be Alpha and dominant. Chicks dig 50 Cent not Steve Urkel. Alpha males love themselves more than they ever could any woman on this planet. Always remember that you are more important than any woman on this planet regardless of how physically attractive she may be. You have high value and she has very low value. You are the Prize she is trying to win over. Perceive the world the same way Brad Pitt does, every high valued quality woman wants you but they’re just not good enough. Every woman on the planet wants you so why settle for the first thing that comes along? Your attitude should be:

      “I am a catch.”

      “I am out of your league.”

      When I became self-centered, that’s how I got good with women. Always talk down to hot women!

      Behave around hot women and talk to them as though they have very low value. Perceive her as a fat ugly chick. Talk to her and carry yourself around her the same way you would to a fat ugly chick. You are a catch, she should be trying to win over your approval!

      Know that there are only ever two steps to follow to figure out anything in life.

      1. Ask yourself “What works?”

      2. Become that!

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