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  • Conversational Rapport

    By on December 17, 2008

    Quick Definition: The degree of comfort, ease, and genuineness of the conversation between two people.

    Full Definition:

    Conversational rapport does not equate to a man asking a HB the same mind-numbing interview questions every other guy does, such as “where are you from,” and “what do you do?” The PUA’s goal is to have an enjoyable time engaging in conversation with a woman while demonstrating attractive qualities.

    Rapport can be built by being unique, interesting, relating, rewarding, and asking interesting questions in your conversation with the HB. Perhaps of most importance is for the PUA to listen to and remember her responses.

    An example of a good question that builds conversational rapport would be, “when you were a little girl, what did you want to be when you grew up?” or “what is your favorite color of gummy bear?”


    I had great conversational rapport with the HB10, but there was no attraction and she was not giving me any IOIs other than being polite.

    Related Terms: Comfort, Banter, DHV, Grounding, Conversational Jujitsu

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