Caveman
AKA Cavemanning or Beasting.
Quick Definition: Aggressively escalating physical contact with a consenting female, as it is believed the cavemen did before language developed.
Full Definition:
Going caveman usually involves minimal verbal escalation and more kino and direct physical escalation. It is a great way to get rid of AA and can also assist some shy rAFCs in re-calibrating and understanding limits in physical escalation. Essentially, the PUA will aggressively escalate until he gets a concrete “stop” or “no” from the target.
Some examples of cavemanning include grabbing a girl by the waist and pulling her towards you, or, in the bedroom, picking up a girl and throwing her onto the bed. Done properly, cavemanning is very dominant and attractive. Calibration is important with cavemanning, and it is important to properly gauge a woman’s buying temperature and respect her physical limits.
Usage:
He was cavemanning his sets tonight to see how far he could go with the kino escalation.
Related Terms: Kino Escalation, Seduction, Body Language, IOI, Calibration
Cavemanning is beyond doubt one of the most effective techniques I’ve ever used for breaking out of the “Friendship Zone”, making up with a girl, competely bypassing LMR, or turning a previous blow-out into a future success. It’s also a MASSIVE turn-on for Cougars who (who from my experience) often actually demand the practice!
As a matter of fact – cavemanning is the best technique for resolving a verbal conflict with a girlfriend or target that shuts you down or leaves you in a position where you’re only other out is to DLV. Try it … next time you get a complete blowout try melting into her or pulling you into her and telling how much fun you COULD HAVE had together. You may get slapped but the next time you see her she’ll be much softer – I GUARANTEE IT. I’ve turned at least a dozen LBJFs into ONSs effortlessly using this technique. Just so you understand – I’m not a large man – 5’9″ and around 160 pounds so I’m not simply using size and weight to overwhelm women – many are as tall or taller than me and a few (not embarrassed to say it) may have even outweighed me.
I discovered it quite “accidently” while serving in the military overseas – long before PUA. The only club on base was packed with people every night and the male to female ratio was easily 20 to 1 yet I pulled so many women I literally had a nervous breakdown trying to manage them. I lost track of how many women I slept with and I was only Eighteen years old competing against fit and competent Military men.
1st Example (Discrete): Sitting at a table with 7 AMOGs and one woman (HB6 at best but her environment made her HB9 in most men’s eyes due to the lack of available females). The woman was one I’d chatted up a dozen times at the club but with her pick of men there was no real way I was going to pull her on looks and charm alone – so we had affinity but no real rapport. Using her as my access to the table I managed to get a seat next to her. While talking to the guys around her I simply stuck my hand between her crossed legs at a spot generally considered above comfort level. I had nothing to lose at this point … she’d rejected my every other advance previously … only this time something was different. Not only did she not remove my hand, she opened her legs a little to allow me better access as I chatted up her other suitors and ignored her completely – Game On.
2nd Example (Bold): An HB9 Hired Gun and I were solidly in the friendzone … we dated other people and hung out together in the same social circle. Using my friendship with her I managed to get us going out to clubs in DC as a group. One night as she drove us home I stuck my hand on the inside of her thigh and proceeded to massage her leg as calmly and with as much familiarity as a longtime boyfriend would (I managed to get shotgun specifically for this reason).
Needless to say – Game ON! Here’s the kicker – We still hook up occasionally to this day when we get bored.
3rd Example (Massage): I shared a townhouse with a couple in the basement and an HB9 in the other bedroom upstairs. One night I started a conversation with her in her room while she folded laundry. After complaining how badly I was sore from working that day she responded how sore she was … she’d avoided my attempt to get her to massage me but left it open for me to try to initiate Kino with her – without asking permission I proceeded to massage her while she continued folding her clothes. Giving massages to each other became routine until we finally found our own place together – GAME ON!
Another massage example: An HB8 exotic dancer I’d befriended (she was actually dating the ex-husband of my dancer girlfriend whom I’d introduced to her – it’s a long story involving advanced merging of sets but that’s off-topic) when she mentioned how sore she was from working and that her ass was particularly sore that night I went caveman on her. Without a second thought I pulled her face down onto the couch slid over her and proceeded to massage her ass. Needless to say – GAME ON!
Last Example: (Resolving Conflict) – I shouldn’t have to go into detail here … every one knows the best thing about fighting is making up … just don’t turn into another version of Rihanna and Eminem’s song “Love The Way You Lie”!
Just remember CALIBRATION IS EVERYTHING! Do not cross the line … grab and release if she resists TOO hard. A little token resistance is fun … forcing a woman is inexcusable!