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    Magic Mike PUA Lessons?

    Guest post by B.G.

    This is the sequel to the every-so-gossiped-about movie MAGIC MIKE, a film about the lives of fictional male strippers.  As with the previous film, this sequel attracted hordes of eager women that filled the theaters.  (According to box office mojo, $89M worldwide). There’s even groups of fans composed of of senior citizen women!  And two seats behind me was a senior citizen who even brought her husband to see this film!

    Disgusting notions of “old folks getting it on” aside, I strove to just enjoy the film.


    It was nice seeing a story of a bunch of guys involved in a profession that gets chicks almost worshipping them.  And the drama of how those same guys travel together, the dilemmas they face, the individual stories, etc.  And of course, the effect they have on women…both in the movie and with the real world audience!

    But what interested me the most was how psychologically accurate this film was designed, even more so than its predecessor.  The way the male strippers did their acts actually created real, deep attraction.  They did this by creating a fantasy for the women that had “space” allowances for imagination.  Each of the strippers’ acts gave women what they really wanted.  There was even one strip act that involved the stripper doing a mock wedding with one of the audience women, leading up to the honeymoon bondage sex scene.

    The attraction psychology was so accurate, that I heard some gals in the audience scream with intense ecstacy on more than one occasion.

    All of this is a far cry from the olden days of male strippers who just didn’t get it.  As dating coaches and sexperts today know, evoking deep attraction in women involves giving them to, as opposed to simply flashing flesh.

    MAGIC MIKE XXL showed the in-story audience women being made to feel like queens, being served and getting what they [think they] deserve.  Unlike us guys who can get off simply with some very well formed female stripper bodies, women require an all around approach in order to give the same (or more) level of intense temptation and mental stimulation as us guys get with nice breasts and ass.

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    I highly recommend any student of dating science to go see this film.  You can learn more about what women want from watching MAGIC MIKE XXL than you can from a Mel Gibson movie or some sappy 80’s flick.

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    Asian Rockstar Dating Launches!

    This project took me the accumulation of 1.5 years to accumulate, and I’m happy to share it with you this week!

    You can catch a preview video here

    Vince, what is ARD?

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    Get a copy or ARD here before we remove all the bonuses after launch.


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    Game Sense Is LIVE for $3!

    From “No girl will ever like you and you will die ALONE” to rockstar status… 7 years. 7 unique game paradigms. 30 field tested lines. 10 in-depth videos.

    $3.00. Game Sense Is Now Live.

    Enjoy the $3 buffet:


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    PrankInvasion, IMHO: FAKE

    So it started out with me looking at a video Post by Movie2k. As I was watching it, I realized that girl looked really familiar. Upon further inspection, I do know her! It’s Ashley Mitchell from MTV’s Real World. Actually, I was friends with her way before her MTV stint.


    I then took a look at this guy’s channel. PrankInvasion on YouTube and saw some of his videos. I thought it was harmless fun. He’s just making out with a bunch of girls. But what is dangerous is that some guys are starting to take him seriously. This stuff bothers me, because anyone with basic pick up knowledge knows that what he’s doing is unrealistic. You don’t go up to girls, say “guess my name”, and then say, “you’re fucking adorable” and make out for 5 minutes straight. Upon further research, I found that Backwardshat already posted about his videos being totally fake.

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    What’s annoying is that this guy is basically making a living off his 1 million YouTube subscribers, based on a false reality. What’s more annoying is that guys are actually thinking this is real, and it further confuses them as to the legitimacy of pick up techniques.

    People claim “fake” shit all the time, like Vitaly’s makeout video and Simple Pickups video. The reason you never see them get “called out” is because, those girls ARE anonymous, and their pick up is real. Vitaly probably had to go through a lot of girls to find the 3 that would makeout with him, but he’s good at approaching girls and Simple Pickup is legit because I’ve seen Kong doing it in person in San Francisco with his buddies. Also, they don’t mind posting their lame pickups on film too.

    Don’t fall for all the in-field stuff you see. Get guys who are good to hangout and see them in person.


    Maybe It Was Lust At first Sight?

    In 2 weeks, we’ll be launching Seduce With Style 3.0 Live. It is a full course taught by me, Vince Lin, in module module format as well as really cool looking illustrations. SWS 3.0 LIVE includes specific, step by step instructions from me in illustrations, video and post format so that you can’t go wrong.

    Here’s a brief clip from one of our “demonstration” modules:

    Enjoyed the clip? Stay tuned for the 5 Free Sexy Lookbooks next week that’ll get you lust at first sight.

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    PUA Themes in Recent Movies (Kingsmen, 50 Shades Of Grey)

    KINGSMAN: THE SECRET SERVICE had a short scene where the agent recruits were required to each pick up a woman using the seduction training they received. The scene was at some night club, and all three agents swooped down on just this one girl, as they explained the concept of negging and so forth. It was the first time on film that I’ve seen/heard PUA concepts being explained. So its now apparent that PUA stuff has become a regular household thing in our modern society.


    The movie (no spoilers here) also paralleled the theme of the “gentleman” like in Great Expectations. Quote from the mentor:

    “Being a gentleman is not about being better than other people. It is about being better than your former self”

    As for 50 SHADES OF GREY, it was basically an instruction video on the female attraction mechanism. The main character, Christian Grey, basically demonstrated some qualities that drive women to intoxicating attraction. The only downside of all of this was that the actor who played Christian Grey looked a lot like Paul Janka, who is a scamming douchebag PUA coach.


    Guest Post By Gladiatorbattler


    Master’s Interview #22: Zan Perrion

    One of my favorite dating coaches of all time came to speak with us this week. We talk about love, life, and most importantly, tactical advice on how to pick up girls. Enjoy the video!

    If you liked Zan and his concepts, leave a comment so we can invite him back!

    For more information on The Ars Amorata, checkout http://www.zanperrion.com/

    You can pickup a copy of The Alabaster Girl, one of the best books on natural game (in my humble opinion) here.


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