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  • Blow Out Opener

    By on August 30, 2010

    Quick Definition: An opener designed to blow the artist out in order for him to practice being comfortable with rejection.


    Full Definition:

    A Blow Out Opener is a great way to see that rejection is a part of life, without putting yourself on the line personally. When used in conjunction with a venue change or warm up sets, Blow Out Openers are great for getting over AA.

    Sometimes, because of the audacity of the opener itself, the PUA can get positive responses to a Blow Out Opener that was intended to garner rejection. He can then attempt to push the envelope further or take the set as a good set.

    Different types of blow out openers include:

    Vulgar and forward: “Nice shoes, wanna fuck?”

    Apocalypse opener: “Hi. What are you doing later? Want to come back to my place?”

    Randomness: “I like pickle juice”

    Cheesy pickup line: “Did your wings hurt when you fell from heaven?”

    Racial stereotypes: (Done with an Asian, Hispanic or French accent) “Excuse me honey. Was your father a thief? Because he stole the stars and put them into your eyes”

    Here are some GREAT examples of blow out openers from the fraternity crew in a local school:

    “So my sister is in town. Are you down for a threesome?”


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  • 2 Comments

    • JUNIOR

      WHAT WILL HAPPEN ULTIMATELY IF I’VE TOLD MY CURRENT GIRL THAT I’M GAY

      • if you have game she’ll dress up as a man for you when you have sex

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